the following week that he has a girlfriend should you tell the girl because i feel like i made him cheat and i think that she should know!!!
2006-11-28 05:24:04 · 31 answers · asked by LilMama_123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not a word about it! it may turn out really nasty for the 3 of you! just keep it to urself.
2006-11-28 05:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all u did NOT MAKE him cheat. He cheated because thats what he does. Depending on how close u are with the girl is wether or not u should tell her. It could turn out to be a he said she said thing, and im sure the dude will denie it all. Just thank God u know the type of loser he is and how it could have been u he cheated on. Just donr worry about him anymore. He is nothing.
2006-11-28 13:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by goober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think telling her would just be hurtful. If he keeps making out with girls behind her back, she'll find out eventually. Did you ever hear the expression, "Don't shoot the messenger?" Well, in this case, if you told her what happened, you'd be the messenger, and even though you didn't know he had a girlfriend at the time, she'd still consider you a part of the betrayal and get angry with you too. Better to just walk away and never have contact with him again.
2006-11-28 13:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you make him cheat? He cheated because he wanted to. Or did you hold a gun to his head? Just turn the question around. Would you want to know that your boyfriend was out there kissing other girls? You can deliver the news to her and go on with your life. It's not like you knew they were together and tell her that.
2006-11-28 13:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont tell her. Most likely she will get mad at YOU and not him. You will just put yourself in a bad position. Save yourself the trouble and forget about him. He knew he had a girlfriend and he still made out with you. You didnt make him. He should of known better and thats a guy you shouldnt want around anyway cause he is really shady.
Good luck!
2006-11-28 13:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. do you know this girl? do you feel guilty? does this boy like you? is he going to stay with his girlfriend? do other people know about this, will his girlfriend find out anyways? I would try to get him to tell his girlfriend because I think if she heard it from another girl she would probably confront her boyfriend about it, but if he lies and says it never happened. She would probably believe him over you since that is her boyfriend and you are just some girl. yes. i think she should know too. but it is not your job to tell her unless she is a good friend of yours. then maybe i would tell. but you have to think about the consequences. will both of them just be mad at you then? if so, then don't tell. at least not right away. i think things like this eventually surface. so its only a matter of time before she finds out and he will have to deal with what he did. He is the cheater. You didn't do anything wrong.
2006-11-28 13:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is what you need to do:
1. talk to the girl...make sure she understands that you had no idea about the whole situation
2. sit down and watch John Tucker Must Die with her
3. (you and the girlfriend) Go on a quest for revenge
haha that's what i would do.
2006-11-28 13:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His girlfriend is none of your business, stay away from that. Stay focused on YOUR goal.
If he cheated on his girlfriend he WILL cheat on you. Are you OK with that?
If you are then best of luck to you! [really, if you're ok with that go for it]. If not then stay away from him and find somebody who will be more committed.
Most people never change... don't fool yourself into thinking otherwise.
2006-11-28 13:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kirk H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your mouth closed..Dont mess up his relationship. You only made out ,noithing serious. Move on find another guy, but before U make out,find out if he has a girlfriend.
2006-11-28 13:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Stay out of it and stay away from that guy. Ratting him out to his girlfriend only breeds vindictiveness and keeps the situation in your mind. Put it behind you and don't worry about getting people back for disappointing you.
2006-11-28 13:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that if he does not tell her then you will, after all if he did this once he will probably do it again and its not right for a girl to be getting played like that.
2006-11-28 13:28:22 · answer #11 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋