my question is probably the same that most people have. However the other person wants to make it work with me but the child she has may or may not be mine and i think that she's B.S.n on finding out the truth. But in the event that this is not my child the baby daddy drama is stupid as h#ll and now i'm wondering do I want to deal with that for the rest of my life. The good thing is that we live in different states and we have'nt really started to make serious long term plans. What do you think?
2006-11-28 05:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by WilliSmoke1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to step up and be a man if it is your child. Get a paternity test. If it's yours, you don't have to marry the girl if you don't want to, but you do need to be there for the child. If it's not, then you have nothing to worry about.
2006-11-28 05:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are based on trust, sounds like there is no trust here so why waist your time! First things are first though find out if that child is yours and if so....be a good father, after all its not the child's fault the mom has no self control!
2006-11-28 13:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by thegoodwitchmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the problem. Either make up your mind to accept the child as your own, or don't. It is a package deal. The baby doesn't have anything to do with who the father is, and will only return the love given to it. Are you looking for an excuse to drop this lady?
2006-11-28 14:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by fall guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should try to make it work so what if the baby isnt yours if you like this person try it it might just work just because she has a baby thats not yours that doesnt mean you should lay down and forget about her make it work things should go great email me devandanielle@yahoo.com i have more to say.
2006-11-28 13:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by devandanielle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how you feel about the other person. Kids can be a great addition to your life if you choose to let them in. It doesn't sound like you're much interested in either though.
2006-11-28 13:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by Glennroid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should drop them an move on....unless you love them....then if there's still love involved....try an make it work....no ones perfect...
2006-11-28 13:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it.
2006-11-28 13:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by 2hot4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋