Hi Ladies ;). Needing female advices. Plz answer me *******?

Question

I met this girl like 2 months ago in a party from uni, we'v been talking in university with her until I asked her for a date; she accepted and we go out a month ago, the date was wonderful we talked and laughed for 4 hours and she already had said(day after) that it will be second date,so during the month after the date we'v been talking in net and at uni, and sometimes it seems that the fire is turned on and othertimes it goes down. So my problem is that it seems that she is like avoiding me, for example today she saw me and passed behind me and didnt even talked to me(she probably taught that I didnt see her) so I have managed to put her in a situation that she had to talk to me and she talked to me like nothing had happened. So my problem is.. I think she is ashamed with me(not sure) and with nobody else because she is very popular and nice with everybody. What should I do? I'm really confuse about these "signals", ladies what these signals mean(think like was u doing this)? Thks **

Answer 1

If she is very popular, chances are she is cordial and nice to many people. Maybe she didn't see you. Maybe she is waiting for you to make another move. Don't invent reasons FOR her. Ask her. Maybe SHE is confused.

Answer 2

the feeling of being hot or cold sometimes is kinda normal when you start seeing someone. when you are going out with someone properly, sometimes you just hang out like you are buddies, but because you are sure they love you, it doesn't feel worrying, but if you are just seeing someone, the times when you just wanna chat and not be 'coupley' feel like its gone 'cold' because you aren't secure in the relationship so cant tell for sure what it means.

additionally not all pretty girls think they are pretty, maybe shes a little paranoid and worrying too, doesn't want to seem to forward, or pushy, or thinks you don't like her or ignored her rather than vice versa and is a bit cold because of that. perhaps you are feeling a bit insecure and paranoid and reading too much into it. perhaps if you have been talking but only having a few dates over a period of months but you haven't got more serious (perhaps because you are a bit insecure to push it) she might feel like you went that interested and her reaction is due to that.

talk to her, ask what she has been up to, say you have been really busy lately, sorry you haven't seen her much, but that you thought of her, and does she fancy going to the movies cause you had such fun before. if she says yes, then she definitely likes you so make an effort to turn it into a relationship! if she says shes busy, offer another time, if she says no, then no skin of your nose and go find another fish!

Answer 3

It just sounds to me that she thnks you are a pretty cool dude but only wants you as a friend. I mean i am sure she had fun with you and wants to hang out more but have you ever asked her where she thought the relationship was going? Maybe if you did that than she would relize that she is giving wrong signs. or you can always tell her that you are getting mixed signals and want to get things right between her and you that way you arent living youre life feeling one way about her when she really wants you to feel another way. You get what i am sayin? But i would be really open with her maybe she dont relize she is doing it. But good luck with whatever happens.

Answer 4

For one thing I would never treat anyone like this! I have never been one who was considered to be living in a dog house...
It has been awhile maybe she feels you are the one who doesn't want to go out with her?
Ask her out again, then and only then will you have your answer.

You must be a very smart person or I would not think you could do all your studding and be able to have time to worry too :0)

Good luck....

Answer 5

Well, that's a tough one. Either she likes you and wants to be friends or perhaps she met someone else and still wants to keep you interested. I hate when people give mixed signals. My ex b/f did that all the time. We were commited and then he would say we weren't it seemed it was on or off at his convenience. Drop her and find someone who will love you just the way you are with all of your strengths and flaws. Good Luck.

Answer 6

If she is shy, she probably didn't feel comfortable starting a conversation when she thought you didn't see her. If she is out going, she is probably not that into you but she wants to keep you around as a friend or a backup boyfriend. That's what I think. And why don't you ask her out again? that is the only way you can find out if she wants to be more than friends or not. good luck!

Answer 7

Gee guy maybe she really didnt see you that time. It might be that shes a reallly busy person with a lot to do and people to talk to all the time. So maybe she was distracted by something else entirely and it has nothing to do with you. Ask her out again.

Answer 8

Am sorry to say this about my sisters but sometimes we could be talked into not going out with a real sweet person just because he is not cool. I feel that she told a few of her friends about what a great time she had and they talked her into not going out with you again I have seen this happen before even to me. Forget about her am sure, there are plenty of girls that would like to go out with you but you just have not notice maybe they look uncool to you “think about it”.

Answer 9

Dont give up on her, just give her the space she needs for a while. If you show her that you can give her time to think, then she'll respect you more. Some girls are really bitches in college and they like to "play the game". If shes trying to get u to get the hint, then just stop altogether. You will have other classes with other beautiful, intelligent girls. good luck!

Answer 10

Just keep pursuing her... i mean im only 16, but i think you should keep hassling her so she knows you care ! ... then ask her out boldly in a way she cant refuse, like in front of her friends or something lol ?? i am pretty sure she likes you but is too caught up in the age thing... why dont you do some research with heaps of age difference relationships then print it all off and be like "here is evidence that we can work"