me and my gf broke up last week and i had already bought her the present. I still love her, i dont know if i should take it back to the store or just keep it and see what happens the next few weeks.
2006-11-28 04:57:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it depends on how the breaking up came to be I mean did you 2 part on speaking terms ? if so then I say give it to her I mean you bought it for her & I think if you didnt want her to have it you wouldnt have bought it to begin with . But if it was an ugly break-up I wouldnt give it to her , she might think your sucking up just to get her back & even if you do want her back you dont wanna suck up to her , she'll never take you back if she thinks thats whats going on so if your friends give it to her if not then take it back or give it to a female family member ( if its nothing personal )
2006-11-28 05:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait and see what the next couple of weeks brings. If you remain pretty good friends, I would still give it to her. If not, take it back. If she has any problems with this, just explain to her that you had bought if for her before y'all broke up. Good luck!
2006-11-28 05:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by KrisJH24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what happens- for now, call up some good friends, order some pizza, and have them help you pick up all those broken pieces of your heart. And don't be a freak! Don't start calling her like crazy or just "bumping" into her, or attacking her friends with questions. Step back, make the girl miss you. Then she will come back because she misses you, no pressure. If she doesn't, happy hunting!
2006-11-28 05:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by big mommasweeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love her and there is a chance of you guys getting back together, keep it. Most likely you can still take the gift back after Christmas if you need/want to.
2006-11-28 04:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by crazygirlbelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question...she's your ex. That means the relationship is over. Holding on to her present is holding onto the hope that you might get back together and that's not healthy. Take the present back and start over.
2006-11-28 04:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Cakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the cuase of the break-up? Is it her fault??? She has another guy? if that's the case then return it (or you can give it to her in this manner... shove it in her face)...
Is the break-up because of you??? Do you still love her? If yes then give that to her right away and ask for a second chance...
2006-11-28 05:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by ayskyubx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who broke up. If you did, then no. If she did and you can give it to her without expectations, then give it to her. If the break up was mutual and you are on good terms, then give it to her. Do not give it to her if she is longing for you, because that will make it harder on her. If you and her are capable of being "friends" then give it freely. It also depends on what the gift is- if it is of significant emotional and financial worth, then I suggest taking it back.
2006-11-28 05:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt give it to her i personally wont even LOOK at my ex let alone accept a present from him. Dont break your heart again by getting refused. but thts just my opinion.
2006-11-28 05:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by jade h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it back to the store man, although i gave my ex a little gift for Xmas last year, she had a nasty itch for weeks........
2006-11-28 05:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Birdy is my real name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang on to it for awhile. The breakup is still to fresh in your mind. Might want to look at reasons you broke up.
2006-11-28 05:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by g49joeybethl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋