I know this is really cliche, but there's this guy at church that I haven't seen since I was six. Every time we're both at church, the conversations are hilarious and seem to never stop. He told me last Sun. night that I was pretty, and that he didn't even recognize me at first when he saw me. I asked him to my Christmas Party for work, just so I could have somebody to talk to, and he said "I reckon I can". When we're sitting next to each other talking, he's always turning his head to look at me, and he's even claimed that he's tryin to impress me, and he called me a beuatiful distraction. So...now that ur bored w/ the background info...would he call me if I gave him my cell number? Does he like me? or is he just being nice to me?help guys, please?
2006-11-28 04:49:42 · 23 answers · asked by Awesomest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he likes you.
Yes, give him your number.
Will he call? He will want to call, and as long as he doesn't get gripped by fear when he picks up the phone, he'll call. Or as long as he doesn't do the 'I am trying to ignore my feelings and I'm gonna just let one more day slip by before calling, and one more day, and one more day' thing that guys do, because they are afraid of calling and actually seeing if she says yes or no. But give him your number, and don't take it personally if he doesn't call. Perhaps you should just ask him out in person, yourself? It is 2006 after all.....
(I don't actually know if he's too shy or too chicken to call, but some guys are. And you asking him out won't do anything to make him more brave, but that's something he'll have tackle later, if it is a problem for him)
2006-11-28 05:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by wavemage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walking right into "giving your cell number to call" may not sometimes help you. Give yourself another week or two. You can decide on how long is not too long. But, it definitely helps to not sound too "predictable".
It also gives an impression that you aren't desperate for him. It helps to keep feeding those subtle signs while holding back just a little bit. That might add to the fun in building an interesting relationship after all :-)
2006-11-28 04:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A faint heart never won any battles. It seems to me that he likes you. Did he ask for your number? Ask him what it is you are distracting him from. You need to talk to this guy, and remember that guys are thick headed when it comes to girls. You will probably have to be the one to break the ice. So if you have any questions, just muster up the courage, and ask the guy. You may be surprised how easy it is from that point on. The worst thing that can happen is he tells you the truth. You have nothing to lose if you talk to him and just be blunt. You have maybe a great guy to lose if you don't.
2006-11-28 04:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want the word "YES" served on a plate for you ? It's MORE than obvious he is crazzzzzzzzzy about you. I say you call him up and ask him out. It would just click from there... I know so, becuz I met this girl for the first time at church too and we went to school together since 5, but it seemed like she wasn't interested, so I backed off.
2006-11-28 05:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Batman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we're sitting next to each other talking, he's always turning his head to look at me, and he's even claimed that he's tryin to impress me, and he called me a beuatiful distraction.
With that being said,,,you answered your own question!!!
He's a diggin ya!!!
2006-11-28 04:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a sweet enough guy. You might give it a bit more time before giving him your cell phone number. I guess the only thing that bothers me, and this is minor, though that doesn't stop me from expressing it, is that I wish he wouldn't say reckon. I'm also from Virginia, and I'd rather not have that word be associated with us.
He likes you.
2006-11-28 04:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds interested to me. I wouldn't make all those comments to a female if I wasn't interested. He could be shy about starting a relationship and making the comments to see what your reaction will be. I bet if you give him your cell phone number he will call pretty quickly.
2006-11-28 04:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny give him your number you too sound like you would be verry cute and good to each other when he looks at you when hes talking like that he is trying not to go to far and wants to see what your reaction is when he talks to you hes testing the water and trying to figure out how you feel....so help the man out and talk to him about how you feel and where you would like this realtionship to go
2006-11-28 04:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, I know, it says guys only, but I think that maybe things should just happen the way they are meant to happen. God works in mysterious ways..... I think maybe, if the time is right, give him your number. Does he like you?? Possibly....most likely. I would think so, but some guys (not every guy!) just do that to trap you and then laugh when you really believe that they like you. (Don't ask!! Had it happen). But if you like him and think he likes you, I'd say go for it!!!! You only live one life!!!
2006-11-28 04:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by inlovew/jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would call you if you gave him your number. Unless he's doing everything you described to someone else, too. Then he's just being nice. But it sounds like he is into you. So, i you are into him, too, then give him your number.
2006-11-28 04:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by NOT as smart as a 5th grader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋