if i stop talking to my ex...Will he miss me? and start contacting me? he is the one who broke it up......we are both adults...he is 26 I am 20.
if i keep contacting him, will that drive him away from me? i dont want to look crazy or psycho....
any advice? thanks
2006-11-28 04:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by padros 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave it alone a while and see what happens
2006-11-28 04:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by arei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex will miss you if you stop talking to him. But that doesn't mean he will contact you, he might make himself NOT contact you, believing that is the healthiest thing.
If you KEEP contacting him, it will likely drive him away (depending on how often you do it, and how desperate you sound). You might look like a psycho stalker.
2006-11-28 05:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by wavemage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo dear you sound just like me....i need to tell you to ignore the books (he's just no that into you) and your friends advice....actually its alright to take a poll just to see the general answer...but do what you think is right....remember if he broke up with you it was for a reason and if you stop talking to him it will be that much easier for him to move on with his life...each day you dont talk to him is another day he is able to move on with his life...but dont hound him....call him maybe once a week and the first time you do listen to his tone and it will most def tell you if he appreciates your call and wants to keep talking and if you feel he doesnt want to talk to you then its probably so so move on.....
2006-11-28 04:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah stop contacting him, he already know that you miss him cuz you been calling him. Just leave one message on is voicemail and if he doesnt respond then he doesnt want to get back together.
2006-11-28 04:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by maeseason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one here can tell you what your ex may feel!!
However, if you allow yourself contact with him, it doesn't give him much chance to miss you, does it?
2006-11-28 04:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to let him go because if he is going for someone new it will hurt you badly when he finds someone else.
2006-11-28 04:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you Call him means that youre a little obsessed...let him call you let him think about you....you will be surprise....
2006-11-28 04:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by semplicemente_io1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋