My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 2 years in march and we've been through alot i lost a baby this year and i just can't take it anymore july of the first year we were going out he had sex with my cousins girlfriend and when i found out about it august this year he denied it and tried to pull me out of my window one night but i didn't let him so he punched me. This month he got mad at his parents and took it out on me and my sister he told us to go home so we did and he chased me to my house and tried to force me to go withhim so he punched me in front of my little sister he threatens me if i dont go out with him i dont have any friends because of him he never takes me anywhere or we never have fun. should i and im only 16 and hes 20
2006-11-28 04:41:03 · 26 answers · asked by temptdone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tut tut tut,babe! I think you know the answer to this one.
If he's not good to you,why should you stay??
if he beats you up that's another reason to leave.
and cheating on you??wooh hoo hoo...no babe,every relationship is built on trust and he betrayed that trust.
Your a princess and you deserve a crown.
He's obiviously not the one for you.
Be smart!
anyway hope you do what's right for you.
You take care,bubye! :)
2006-11-28 04:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is bad news, Do not stay with your so call boyfriend, don't you know you do not have to take this crap from any one. The next time he puts his hands on you, call the police on him. You tell him that a lot of things has happen since you have been involved with him. and that may be you have been given a second chance in life. And now you want to concentrate on your school work, so you can make a better life for yourself. and looking back now, you think he is too old for you! And if he mess with you, tell your parents. tell the school guidance council. Now you do need to concentrate on school, This guy is not for you. you should be having fun with your friends, not involved with a control freak. Remember you picked him.
2006-11-28 04:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave now!!! That is not the way you should be treated!!! No man has the right to put a finger on you...no matter how long you just have been going out....
There are a lot of guys out there that dream of meeting a girl like you and will treat you like a princess... You don't deserve to be treated the way you are...please leave...run...he is being abusive...leave...
Find yourself a real man that's nice, loving, and will never hurt you that way...
Please seek help!!!!
2006-11-28 04:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him alone. He only does these things because he's older and thinks he could get away with it. What do your parents think about all this that is going on? Think about it what would a 20 year old man want with a 16 year old girl? If you haven't told your parents about this I suggest you do so
2006-11-28 04:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can make him stop is if you get out now. You are so young (especially to have gone thru all that) and you will find someone who will treat you like you are worth something if you want to find that person. This guy you are with only cares about one thing and that is himself and until he grows up and gets some help for being abusive he will never change.
2006-11-28 04:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is staying with him really an option for you?
If you do, you're just going to get more of the same. He's a loser and you've wasted two years of your life. Move on.
Or, just call the police. He's an adult, you are still a child. He goes to jail for any number of reasons, and while he's in jail, have your folks send you to a relative in another state. Don't be attracted to the drama, you're just a kid, too young to know that drama is childish and ugly to the adult world.
2006-11-28 04:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave immediately and the next time he touches you, call the Police. He will never change and you are well along the road to a really bad beating. Get out while you can.
2006-11-28 04:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why would a 20 yr old go out with a 16 yr old you were 14 and he was 18, go out with a guy your age and look for a man , a man never beats his lady, and call the cops he'll keep doin it if u don't.
2006-11-28 04:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no point in giving another chance.You dont deserve this.You have had enough.Just kick him in the @$$ and do yourself a favour.World is big enough with better people out there for you.You will find someone who truely loves and cares about you.
2006-11-28 04:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you F-U-C-KING kidding me get the hell out of this realtionship a real man has no need to hit a girl....ive been punched in the face and nutz by ex-girls ive had and ive never hit a single one of them he nutz get out while you can please dont be held down by some control power hungry freak
2006-11-28 04:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋