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I know a pretty girl in my class that i love very much, she always sits besides me, we talk with each other as we have time, and she is very nice. I LOVE HER SOO MUCH I want to ask her out, but i couldnt, because i dont know how she feels towards me, or i am being more then she thought our relationship is. She always sit beside me when she gets the chance, i joke around with her, she always ask me first for anything she wants, cause i am the TOP student and she is a new student this year, so what could i do, howcould i deepen the realtionship?

2006-11-28 04:39:40 · 12 answers · asked by Dr.X 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

don't be shy come on you can do this! you know if you really like her don't be afraid to ask her out.

2006-11-28 04:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by lisa 1 · 0 0

Got news for you sunshine - what you are talking about is something called - RISK -

Ask yourself this - if I ask her out and she says no - will I become violently ill and die ? Will my family become violently and die ? If you conclude that the answer to these questions, like I did would be a resounding NO - THEN WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE EXACTLY BY ASKING HER !

You could always say something funny to her - make her laugh and then say - ''if I were to ask you out - would you say no" - you might find that would be less pressure on her than ''will you go out with me" - same question - but asked from a different perspective. You've actually asked a hypothetical question that she can answer safely and you can get the answer safely - do you understand what I mean ?

To summarise, whatever she answers it won't kill you or her and she just might be dying for you to ask the question in the first place - life is a risk my friend - and some people live their whole lives as carefully as possible from the cradle to the grave - don't be one of those people that is existing not living - OK ?????!!!!!!!

2006-11-28 04:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

First off "love" doesn't seem like the word to use. You should try to get to know how she feels first. Ask hypothetical questions and see how she reacts. But don't make it too obvious or she will instantly know what you wanna to know. Take it one step at a time.

2006-11-28 04:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well talk to her and ask if there is anyone in paticular that she likes at your school in the way of a boyfriend type. If she says you say I feel the same way about you. If she is a true friend to you then she will let you down easy and still be your friend if she finds out you like her.

2006-11-28 04:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i will wager you're a solid dreamer; it quite is not the thank you to return to a determination; love could be reciprocal, you would be unable to easily come to a determination like that; you're prompted by making use of the actual edge that's barely the top of the iceberg; i might advise you refer to her on any subject count different than relationship or love subjects and notice how she reacts. it quite is then which you will proceed as you proposed.

2016-12-13 15:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Ask her if she would like to spend an evening with you and if she says yes then your in and make sure you do something nice for her when uz do go out

2006-11-28 04:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0 0

don't ask her out. most of the girls are intelligent and they might notice of what you want. don't make it easy.

just asking her related to your study and til then ask her out when you are get closer.

if she already has a bf or a crush in your school, it is your challenge to conquere her attention.

i hope this may help you when dealing with a girl you like.

2006-11-28 04:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by love is blind 2 · 0 0

you LOVE her? c'mon brotha, you probably just love the idea of her. just ask her out. what's the worst that can happen? she says "no"? big deal! it doesn't even have to be about a date, it could be a study session or something like that. live in the NOW!

2006-11-28 04:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0 0

you may be infatuated, but in love??? i doubt it. just keep being friendly and make moves little by little to be around her outside of class.

2006-11-28 04:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

write her a letter and tell her how u feel about her tell her to wright u back about what she think about it and then after tell her u want to take her out

2006-11-28 04:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by sexy110 1 · 0 1

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