My friend died recently i need to know did he pass peacefully and my other friend is struggling does he need me or does he need space?Im really worried about him but i dont want to smother him eaither
2006-11-28 04:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by Kelz 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
your friend who died wants you to know that he's watching over you and not ot worry about him. he says he's happy and he wants you to be happy too. your other friend needs your help. give them some support, but don't smother them.
2006-11-28 04:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by drakeluver 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Even if someone is psychic it doesn't mean they are all-knowing. That's why they're not super rich. People are such morons not being able to figure that out, it's so simple, and that's why those people aren't super rich, either.
That being said, except to make yourself feel more comfortable and to absolve yourself of any guilt you might be feeling, I can't see why it matters about your recently dead friend. Whatever you might get from it, the very last moments were peaceful enough. Your other friend just needs reassurance that you care and are there for whatever, just to have someone around if that's all they want right now. Stop being so anxious around them and just be a person.
2006-11-28 13:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY do you 'need' to know if he passed peacefully? Is it really your business?
As to your other friend, ASK HIM. You don't need psychics for this. But common sense is often not so common.
btw, Drakelover, that was a really good cold read!
2006-11-28 12:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How they passed doesn't matter, there is nothing you can do about it now. There is something you can do about your friend though so concentrate your energies on that. Let your friend know you are there for him, give him the love and support he needs, this will honor your friends memory more than worrying or trying to find out how they passed.
2006-11-28 12:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by darkness_returns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you lost your friend. I'm sure it is very hard to accept now. It is perfectly normal to want to know if a loved one struggled or passed on peacefully. There is really no way of us knowing. I feel you should seek God. Only he/the Holy Spirit can comfort you and your friend. You two should support each other during this time. Don't waste your time with psychics!
2006-11-28 12:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well, first, there's no such thing as a psychic. If psychics were real they'd be rich and powerful, not working out of a booth at a carnival. Second, friends always need friends. However, sometimes they need you to keep your distance. Ask your friend what he needs. If he needs you to stay away then that's what you should do.
2006-11-28 12:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Forget about the psychics, go to your friend and ask him what he wants you to do. Offer your help, and say "I'm here. Let me know if you want me to stay, or if you want me to go" and just do what he says.
2006-11-28 12:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry your looking medium not a psychic if any one was psychic they would win the lotto no problem. good luck trying to find a real medium just ask Houdini wait he's dead any way i see dead people and some time converse with them but i don't enjoy it sometimes it just freaks you out they come when you least expect it. i could help maybe but i doubt it, you would jst have more questions that i don't feel like answering.
2006-11-28 12:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
you know so called psychics are just doing what is called a cold reading they ask questions and formulate the answer on what you tell them and most of the time they tell you what you want to hear but if you believe fantasy its not my problem right?
2006-11-28 12:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your friend wasn't expecting to die so death crept up on him and so, it was peaceful but surprising. Your friend who is alive wants you to keep in touch but wants to grieve alone for a short period.
2006-11-28 12:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by a_delphic_oracle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋