I've been dating a guy for 1 1/2 months now and he calls every couple or few days. We see eachother once, maybe twice-at the most-times a week. He seems into me, has introduced me to a few friends, but I figure if he was way into me, he'd want to spend more time together and make sure he's taking up my time. I know it's not at the point where I have a right to ask if he's seeing anyone else, but how can I figure it out?
2006-11-28 04:12:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't, if you are not in a position to ask him. You could always casually ask, if you could find a way to work it into conversation. Do you know any of his friends well enough to casually ask? Whatever the case, don't make demands! I think as often as you see each other, you really do have a right to ask, just not to ask him to stop.
2006-11-28 04:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been a month and a half....I think you are entitled to know if it's exclusive. So ask already?! Some guys don't want to spend more than a couple of nights a week with a girl....even if it is exclusive. You need to decide if that's enough time for a boyfriend to devote to you as that may be all he's willing to spend with you. And does he take you out on dates...or does he just want to hang out at your house? Evaluate how secret he is...it's amazing the labels guys give relationships with other girls. He could be taking care of a girl that's a neighbor, friend of the family, former girllfriend...one never knows. And does he seem interested in introducing you to his family? That's another thing to factor in. Find out more about him...or at least determine what he's willing to volunteer. Good Luck
2006-11-28 12:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to know? If you're not seeing anyone else, and don't want him to, just say, hey, I'm ready to stop seeing other people, are you? If he's not ready, then say, ok, no problem, and keep seeing other people yourself. Or at least look for someone!
2006-11-28 12:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by NB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys exclusive? Has he asked you to be his girlfriend? If not, then he is probably dating other people...
The best thing to do is ask him where he sees this going? Tell him you are ready to take it to the next level...
Good luck...
2006-11-28 12:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with him. Bring your concerns to the floor. You'll never find out anything by wondering all the time
2006-11-28 12:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you made a commitment to one another? If so, then it should be assumed, if not, then you could just ask him and tell him you want a commitment.
2006-11-28 12:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to ask. Dont play games, if he's worth it then he'll understand. If he doesnt, he's not worth it!
2006-11-28 12:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by jebudas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check his semen levels
this is best done by consistently sucking his manrod
2006-11-28 12:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just ask.
2006-11-28 12:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by tacohombre13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know, you will feel it in your heart.
2006-11-28 12:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋