I broke up with my gf, after long months of discussing about something she wanted me to do that I didn't want to accept ..I tested her yesterday, to see if she still want to be with me again, and I said to her , I'm gonna do it ... She said, she doesn't want that anymore ..she wants to stay my friend, and have a prospective new boyfriend, now , not yet hers but ...things are evolving ...it's a week since we broke up, she is no more in the mood to kiss me on my lips, or any sensual things, ...is it that she doesn't want to get back, if I ask her ? or is it a strategy from her ? what do u think ?
2006-11-28 04:01:07 · 15 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You blew it.
It's over.
Give her up, dude. If she really wants you, she knows how to find you.
2006-11-28 04:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you caved in, and she wanted you to know that it didn't matter anymore. It's possible that her feelings were hurt, and she is acting as if she has moved on. The breakup was your idea, and it probably hurt her feelings. It does appear that she has moved on and no longer wants to be in a romantic relationship with you, but you're going to have to communicate with her to determine whether it is in fact true. It could be strategy...and that's what you have to figure out. If you want to reconcile, you'd better take action before she gets involved with someone else. I suggest you ask her directly and not beat around the bush. A girl wants to know that she is wanted. She could be withdrawing b/c she was hurt....but you need to accept that she may actually just want to be friends at this point. Good Luck
2006-11-28 04:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, whatever it was, you weren't' required to do it, if it made you uncomfortable.
If she found a new guy in a week, you're old news. She has been setting up to dump you since you said you wouldn't do it.
Let her go. Don't even think about her. She was into her own pleasure, and not concerned about how it affected you. That's the highest level of selfish.
Find you a new girl, and make yourself happy.
2006-11-28 04:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she feels that you are playing with her one time you don't wanna do it then you wanna do it you are not the bf she wants so now your are paying for your mistake so dude just get over it as soon as possible if at least you want to stay as friends. Hey it is also on the other hand not your mistake no one could force you to do what you do not wanna do.
2006-11-28 04:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by ThE oNe FoR aLl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the first step to falling out of love. She's through with you. Move on.
2006-11-28 04:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by JusWonderin06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has moved on, she sounds like the type that moves on if she doesn't get what she wants! Move on and let her be you deserve better :)
2006-11-28 06:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but she's over you. Time to move on.
2006-11-28 04:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try to tell her how u really feel if she acts the same then just move on..
2006-11-28 04:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by angelxeyez85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on
2006-11-28 04:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buck up!! get some confidence and move on !!!
2006-11-28 04:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋