2006-11-28 03:38:14 · 19 answers · asked by Joe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BWAHHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHA that is AWESOME. I needed that laugh. Thanks so much. I can only hope that you are joking. If you are NOT joking...then I would offer this advice in the future:
Be yourself from day 1. If she is liking the person you pretend to be, then she is not for you and will be disappointed when you decide to be "you" again. Find someone who likes YOU... not a guy you pretend to be.
2006-11-28 03:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Scott M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have been yourself a long time ago. Never put on a fake act or pretend to be someone you are not, let it all out there when you want to be serious with someone so that you know they like you for you and you wont have invested six months in a relationship for her just to leave you.
2006-11-28 03:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been lying to her this whole time? That's sad. Obviously if you suddenly stop acting the way she knows you and start acting a whole other way she will get upset. You should have been yourself from the start, not 6 months into the relationship.
2006-11-29 00:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSS !!! from the moment that you met her you should of been yourself.. dont you want her to love who you for who you are and not who you were trying to be.. think about it .... Yes your not going to right way tell her you deepest serects but there is not reason why your not actting yourself around her yet... So i recommened you to get a beer and sit on the couch and watch the football game and act yourself and dont wait a moment more not dont that
=) she will still like ya !!!
2006-11-28 03:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't you already be yourself. I always thought it was best to be yourself from the very beginning because no one likes surprises. If there is stuff that you are hiding it's going to come out eventually, if it's something that is just who you are and isn't going away, she needs to get used to it especially if this is going to be long term. It's best to have everything on the table because eventually the truth will come out. Besides you want someone who wants to be there with you despite knowing all your gross habits.
2006-11-28 03:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by sweet200318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what... do you have a tail or something?
you should have been being yourself the whole time...why wouldnt you be yourself?
i mean if you are not being yourself what does that say about you and your relationship..?
i mean if your living a lie your realtion ship is built on a lie...
i just think you should have been yourself from the beginning... it would be easier, nicer, honest and generally better in the long run
2006-11-28 03:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by arei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have waited this long... I hope "being yourself" isn't TOO much different, or she'll probably be quite surprised! Next time, be yourself from the beginning. It's better for everyone.
2006-11-28 04:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Who have you been acting like for the past six months? Is there something wrong with you that you have to put on an act? Is your name Chip??
2006-11-28 03:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean like you can burp and stuff if you feel comfy with her then yeah go ahead and be yourself of you mean you aced like a nice guy but arent really keep pretending guy
2006-11-28 03:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should of been yourself at the start or the relationship. Hopefully she likes the real you.
2006-11-28 03:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋