My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 15 days now. ARE THR CHANCES THT HE WILL MESG OR CONTACT ME AGAIN???
2006-11-28 03:36:36 · 13 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey grl do you really wanna date a guy like that..Think!!! Hey repect for eachother is one of the most important thing in your relationship..N the second is trust...N I dnt see ne of these things in your relationship so I think you better move on...casue you will never be happy with this guy...N hey grl lemme know when ur out of that ****..you cn email me keelfbeel@yahoo.co.in
2006-11-28 03:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Change your phone number.
2) If he contacts you again, send him an E-mail stating that you no longer wish to have any kind of contact with him, and will begin making reports to the police if he doesn't stop harrassing you.
3) Take some self-defense classes. I'm not saying you should expect him to come after you, but if he does, you need to be ready.
2006-11-28 03:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police and tell them that you are bing mentally abused by him. You also tell them that he has threatened to seriously injure you.
Do not delete the messages.
Keep them as evidence for the police.
You can get a restraining order stating that he cannot contact you or come near you. If he breaks the terms of the order then you report him and the police will take him into custody.
You have to do this.
Don't let the git away with it.
2006-11-28 03:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on honey, if he texts you again with any kind of threats contact your local police. Better if you can keep copies of these messages so that you have some proof. Play the big game, he sounds very possessive, be careful. I wouldn't contact him should he try to text you again, ever consider changing you #?
2006-11-28 03:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
Firstly, you need to start telling people that he's harassing you. Tell your parents, tell all your friends, let them know that right now, you're not feeling very safe and that this guy is the one who is making you feel this way. This way, if something happens, you have people who know that something is wrong, and they can help you. If you're feeling really threatened, or if he's promised to do physical harm to you, go to the police and talk to someone about it.
Secondly, don't ever, EVER contact him again. Don't message him by mistake. Don't even keep his number on your phone.
Good luck! I really hope he leaves you alone from now on.
2006-11-28 03:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up and leave him in the past. He does not deserve you and you dont deserve to be treated like trash. Ihe is only doing that because you let him. You cant let a man talk to you like that. He has someone else trust me and he just want to drag you along and treat you bad becuase you let him and no one else will put up with his crap. You have to be strong and let him know that you deserve to be treated better than that. If you love yourself and have respect for yourself then you would ignore him and tell him to get lost. Move on!!!! You cant let no on abuse you,
2006-11-28 03:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 22:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by drago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if he abuses you, that means hitting you, then you call the police and get him arrested.
That is if you are in the US. I have my doubts.
You should never ever respond to him and he will go away. If he messages you, do not respond. Do not talk to him and never be alone with him.
Good Luck.
2006-11-28 03:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police
2006-11-28 03:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Evans 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go the the police with all those text and and file a report that hes abusing you!
2006-11-28 03:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋