I'm 16, he's 46, which is legal in this country.
We have amazing sex, best i've ever had but now he's losing interest think its cos he's terrified someone will find out.
trouble is i've fallen in love with him now. help
2006-11-28 03:35:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi darlin....just let it go.
Do you very best to fall out of love with him. There is no way it'll ever possibly work out long term. Affairs hardly ever do!
Just remember that when you're 30 he'll be 60 with all wrinkly skin and age spots - EUW!
Take it for what it was...an affair that was the best sex you've ever had. Remember it for the good times and that's IT! Don't try to make anything more of it.
And lemmie tellya, that man is EFFING lucky (and a little gross)!!! I don't know ANY 46 yr old man in the USA that has the gumption of sleeping w/someone 30 years younger!
2006-11-28 03:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i think this is a psychological problem. I dont think you can love a man you are only intamte with but you do have alot of emotional attachement to this man. Talk with a TRUSTED adult, if you must say that the guy is a few years older than you, not a 30 year age gap.
On the other hand it could be the 30 year age gap that may be the problem with him. He might not be able to look himself in the mirror knowing he is having sexual relations with a girl who is old enough to be his daughter. Or the fact it is he used to date your mother, which could gross out a large part of the population on the earth.
And by the way, your not legal till your 18.
2006-11-28 03:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Liza R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Regardless if its legal in your country, it's morally wrong. He's old enough to be your dad. Does your mom know? She would be disgusted! I am! I think you are just a child, and he's only using you for the sex. You can't possibly be on his level- maturity wise. He is way more experienced in life and you are just a baby. I'm not trying to chew you out or put you down, but you need to leave it alone. It as in him, the sex and everything else that goes along with it. I mean, why would you want to have sex with a guy who has been with your mother?
2006-11-28 03:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sick and you might be aswell. It is morally wrong being an ex family member, I mean, how desperate are for you for attention that you need to have sex with you Mom's ex??? He is taking advantage of you. Cut it off.
2016-05-22 22:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just totally wrong. You need to run like the wind. He is just using you for sex. Go out and find someone who will respect you and treat you like a woman should be treated. Don't let anyone just use you for sex. Look at for yourself and your future number one.
2006-11-28 03:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and get away see in the state that i live in NEW YORK that is wrong and he could go to jail in a sec he is tech. a child molester...hes a creep you dont want to be in love with a man 30 years older than you ....you need to get away from this guy befor he try's to wear your skin
2006-11-28 03:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what country decided that 16 is legal to have sex with a 46yr old...ewww that's like having sex with your dad!
you are too young to know what real love is, i thought i was in love with my ex husband (we met when i was 17) ....i wasn't and unfortunately it took me way to long to realize it...now i am divorced.
get the picture?
2006-11-28 03:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should date people your own age. Nothing good will come of your relationship with this man and you will not be anything more than a lay to him.
2006-11-28 03:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 16, he's the BEST you ever had???? Just how long have you been screwing? I mean, I didn't meet my BEST todate til I was in my 30's....you'll get over it!
2006-11-28 03:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need some serious concealing and your mom's ex should be in prison. What's his name ?
2006-11-28 03:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by kjlh58 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋