I have a boyfriend....but i like another guy! I love the boyfriend but me and the other guy click way better.
2 weeks ago the guy i liked kissed me what should i do??
2006-11-28 03:29:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you don't love your boyfriend very much if you are looking around for someone else. It really isn't fair to either guy...you need to make up your mind who you want to be with.
2006-11-28 03:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by SUSAN N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming the question is in reference to a boyfriend / girlfriend, and not a family member or general friend. When somebody says, "I love you, but I'm not In-Love with you.", then be very aware such person is extremely confused. It is not possible to love, but not be in-love, because falling in love comes before actually loving the person. So when you hear such cheap statements, then it's your first clue the person doesn't know what true love is because he/she has never experienced it yet. You might also consider moving on and looking for someone else, because you're probably wasting your time with that person. 1st gear - There are different torques (strengths) of love in a relationship, but "falling in love" is only 1st gear, because it is the initial infatuation seed being planted in the relationship. How it grows from there is up to the couple. This is also where intimate affection may occur and Oxytocin is being released into the brain. You really can't get anywhere at all without Oxytocin (look it up, it is essential in pair bonding and romance). 2nd gear is care. You care deeply about the person and would do anything for the person. 3rd gear is sacrifice. You're willing to make sacrifices for the person, and to keep the person in your heart. 4th gear is commitment. You're willing to make serious promises that the person will always be your one-and-only center of your universe. 5th gear is marriage. You would rather die than not be with the person forever. 6th gear is maximum true love. This is where you have sworn your soul to love the person even beyond death. If the person dies before you do, then you will never seek another. Hope that helps
2016-05-22 22:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to weigh your options. Is he worth leaving your current boyfriend for? Just because you click way better? Does your current boyfriend mean that much, or little to you? Where do you think you would be the happiest? My advice: Make up your mind quickly. The fact that you're considering leaving your current BF for this other guy could cause problems in your current relationship. You're Bf deserves your complete and undivided attention. It's not fair to either of the fellas.
2006-11-28 03:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you obviously dont love your boyfriend and you should feel ashamed for even keeping him as your boyfriend knowing that you like another man and that you kissed another man.
2006-11-28 03:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by AndrewL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what I did. I dumped my boyfriend and let my crush know I liked him. Then the next day he asked me out! You should see how it works out between you two and think if you made the right decision. Me and my crush have been going out for almost 8 months now so it will probably work for you too!
2006-11-28 03:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fool around if you have a boyfriend. if you respect him and love him enough then you will either let the otherr guy go or break it up with your bf. believe me there is nothing more painful then finding out what your significant other has been doing with others. be truthful to yourself and to both these guys.
2006-11-28 03:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really love your B/F, if you did then you would have not kissed the other guy. Clearly you are more attracted to the guy you like, be honest with yourself and your B/F. Breakup with him and date the other guy.
2006-11-28 03:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Skullsoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine yourself fifteen years from now, married w kids. Who's the guy you fall asleep next to in this futuristic view? That's the guy u choose.
2006-11-28 03:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by acollegeangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is some advice for you "Never leave the one you love for the one you like cause the one you like will leave you for the one they love." Just stay with your boyfriend.
2006-11-28 03:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by shy_isha18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and tell your current boyfriend that it is over. It is not nice to cheat on somebody that you are supposed to be in love with!!!
2006-11-28 03:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Eileen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋