2006-11-28 03:04:14 · 26 answers · asked by JASNJ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
First, I would secure any shared bank accounts so the addict wouldn't make us homeless or hungry buy taking all the funds for drugs. I would then take my child to the hospital and advise the staff there that there is suspected abuse and get the child a thorough exam. By Law the hospital should alert the proper authorities but I would personally call the Police and file a report. If you neglect the situation, you could be made an accessory to the crime done against your child. I would also tell my child that this is not his/her fault and promise to make sure it never happens again and mean it. Of course most people's initial reaction would be to kill the Bastard who did such a thing, but that is not thinking rationally. Good luck and please protect your children from further abuse. They are only young for such a short period of time.
2006-11-28 03:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by 66MustangRules 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
get my kids out of there, and try to help him from a distance. Meth addicts need to WANT to change. My sister has been a meth addict for over 10 years and its not an easy road to go down. Be careful and think with your head not always with your heart.
2006-11-28 11:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically I don't understand how I would just "find out". Personally those things would be VERY obvious to me, and if my husband was hurting my son I would first beat the crap out of him, have him arrested and then move my son and I as far away as possible.
I've noticed you've asked questions regarding child abuse and drug abuse in the past. Instead of telling US about it, let the police know as soon as possible.
2006-11-28 11:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out before Social Services showed up! They will take the child away from the both of you.
2006-11-28 11:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mom to Foster Children 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the rest of the people but, I would kill them first, then ask them why they hurt an Innocent child.
Meths, crack, whatever their drug of (CHOICE) is, is their (CHOICE) to do. No one puts a gun to their heads or, twist es their arms behind their backs to do it!!!! They (CHOOSE) to do the drug all by themselves. Lets not blame it on anything/one else. The main thing is to rid them of the planet if they hurt children in the process. The Children must come FIRST.
They are our future.
2006-11-28 11:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would call the police and have him arrested. Hopefully he will spend many years in prison. You and your children, especially the one who was abused, need some counseling to deal with the aftereffects. Your family will be in my prayers.
2006-11-28 11:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Country girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would help your child by separating the two and turn your spouse in for the help they need. Your child has to come first.
2006-11-28 11:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave and never come back!! Get help for your oldest child as soon as you can!!
2006-11-28 11:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Kat0312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get myself and child out of that situation and have him arrested for child abuse. You mean to tell me you couldnt figure this out? Kids come first!!!!
2006-11-28 12:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a bat and beat him until he begs for mercy, then when he asks for mercy lock him in a closet. Then after that u and the kids get out fast!!!
2006-11-28 11:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋