I am having a birthday party for my boyfriend--he is turning 40. He said his friend are taking him to a strip club for a lap dance the night before and he looked just a little too excited about it. Do you think if you are in a serious relationship that it is pathetic to be jealous over the mere fact that he even wants one?
2006-11-28 02:45:24 · 14 answers · asked by m'kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you a jealous person normally or just in this particular situation?
If he's going for a special occasion or every now & then with the guys then I don't think you should be worried about it being about you. Because it's not. To most of us guys, it's just entertainment. We get to PICK OUT a woman to pretend like she likes us, dance around & grind on us. Naked. Or half-naked, depending on where you live. And after a song or two it's over, our wallet's lighter, and we never see her again. As long as you & your bf are in a happy, good relationship and he doesn't start going every weekend then what's there really to be jealous about?
2006-11-28 06:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by BobbyDodd77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. I actually paid for my boyfriends lap dances the first time we went to a strip club together.... For me it's a turn on... he has fantasies and things he really likes so as long as he doesn't call you by the wrong name I would let him do it... you never know that night when you get home may be the best sex ever....
2006-11-28 02:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well to tell you the truth, him getting a lap dance isn't about you. Its about him, getting this attention from someone other than you. Don't be jealous..the thing is dont let your life revolve around him and vice versa. U need to go out and have your fun too. And plus, this lap dance isn't going to hurt you. if anything he'll be ready to put it on you whenever he gets home..lol
2006-11-28 02:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Virgo Fa Sho!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him live a little, Make sure that you give him a better one when he gets home. Most any guy would like to have a lap dance, naked chick dancing in front of you, maybe a little contact, good clean whole-some fun. Good luck
2006-11-28 02:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by davelibby321 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell if I were you I would go with them. Who says you can't go its not like its a bachelor party go and get yourself a lap dance. But do not be jealous because he is coming home to you she is just a dancer who he can't touch but can only put money in her G string. Let him go and have fun but when he gets home give him a show of your own or be ready because he is going to be horny.
2006-11-28 02:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I don't mind if my boyfriend goes to a strip club, but I wouldn't feel comfortable if he received a lap dance. He really doesn't need to have another naked girl that close to him.
2006-11-28 02:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, I probably wouldn't really like it, but if you think about it the girls are just there to make money, it's not like he's going to bring her home at the end of the night. So, as long as it doesn't become a habit, then why not let him go for on night of fun?
2006-11-28 02:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wouldn't be doing it if he was my man. I would tell him that he can stay home and get his own personal lap dance plus some...
2006-11-28 02:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it would bother me! you need to sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel about his friends plans for him. if he really loves you then he shouldnt even consider letting his friends take him to a strip club because bad things could happen. so all you can do is just talk to him. Good Luck!!
2006-11-28 02:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not at all-and yes it is.
Only 40 once-and he IS coming HOME to YOU
2006-11-28 02:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋