if you met a girl that had 2 kids from 2 different dads would you consider giving her a chance?
2006-11-28 02:45:04 · 23 answers · asked by prettypalmbeacher 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man,if she let 2 guys have kids from her and then leave her,then she isnt very bright...i mean,she obviously doesnt learn very fast,since she couldve seen it coming the second time around...my advice is go out wit her for some time,and if u see behaviour u don appreciate,such as lack of responsability or makin her kids a greater oppurtinity than spendin time wit u on the long run,leave her then.so i say giv it a shot,u don hav a lot to lose..
2006-11-28 03:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by jaafar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me no its not the two different dads its just the two kids. been there done that wont put kids through that because they suffer too when i break up. besides the kids are more real and down to earth than their moms anyway. just a real emotional mess and not real comfortable with it.
2006-11-28 10:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um yeah i dont see why not if i realy liked you and wanted to see where it went 2 children shouldnt get in the way some ones children should mean the world to that someone and if some one likes you they would understand
2006-11-28 10:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way; the past is the past. People make mistakes and learn from them. People change throughout the course of their lives for differnet reasons. If you find that you two click then by all means go for it.
2006-11-28 10:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tyson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Third times a charm! Go for it as long as you can handle the kids,if you can't then don't for the sake of the kids.
2006-11-28 10:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a hard relationship cause they are part of it too, you aren't just dating her you are dating her kids too. They are part of everything you do, she makes decisions with them in mind. Do it only if you are ready to for the responsibilities that come with it.
2006-11-28 10:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by DANNY B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is not giving a chance, but its taking a chance - what is wrong in that ?
2006-11-28 10:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by Alrahcam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd consider, but I'd be weary. I'd probably ask a lot of questions. My wife has a child from previous marriage, and all is well.
2006-11-28 10:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by davelibby321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, but it depends upon if she your type or you are deeply in love with her, but hey think about the kids and their dad's also.
2006-11-28 11:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by babu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Why not? As long as she had the type of personality I was interested in.
2006-11-28 10:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋