Does Size Really matter???

Question

My ex bf was quite big... above average.
I now have a new bf and he's as small as my hands no bigger, i have small hands.
Has anyone got any advice on this?? i find wen u get used to a bigger penis, how can a smaller penis satisfy a woman?? for me anyway...

I know that this is a very sensitive subject for men as it's not their fault but i can't pretend that he does satisfy me when he doesn't...

Don't know wat to do....

Answer 1

It matters as much as how big a woman's breasts are. It's all down to preference.

Me? I like big breasts.

Answer 2

I am an average man in size and I can say that in my experience a woman that says size matters is a woman that is not really in tune with her body. I once dated a woman that felt as you do. She laughed at me when we would talk about sex and I told her my size. She would say there was no way I could satisfy her. She wanted it 9" and up. Well I was short on that but she still managed to give me a try needless to say she was greatly surprised. You see some men may not have the size but with the right position and thrust size is not a factor. I would say explore. Sex is all in the mind anyway. Its what you make it. If you make it about how big his penis is then thats what it will be.

Answer 3

Well I guess it depends on what he does with the size he has. I've had large men who were absolutely worthless in bed because they treated me like fabric under a Singer sewing machine. Not good.

Is it the size or the technique that rubs you the wrong way (pun intended!) Technique can be worked on; you really can't do anything about the size. Sex is important in a relationship, but consider other factors: is he attentive? Trustworthy? Does he respect and support you?

Again, determine if its the size or technique that has you at odds; that will help you resolve your problem. If it's technique, you can guide him and show him what you like (I haven't met a man yet would could resist a demonstration!) If you're going to end the relationship because of size, be kind about it- and make sure his other attributes are worth giving up.

Answer 4

First things first.
For every girl saying there is a guy with a wee willy there is a guy saying there is a girl with a bottomless pit.
Your best bet is to first start doing your pelvic exercises to tighten up the entire area. This also has the added benefit of giving you more control and better stimulation.
Of course there are pills and creams, sheaths and implants, and the ever popular communication.
You may just need to change your foreplay or after-play and use a prosthetic (toy) to give you what you need.

Answer 5

Length isn't the major factor in pleasure for a woman. It is actually width. This is because the nerve endings of a womans vagina are relatively near the opening, though they line the walls. Since you have become used to wider girth, you may need to try differient positions. If this doesn't help, I suggest stopping sex compleatly for about six months to give your vagina time to get used to a smaller penis.

Answer 6

Yes it does matter a lot. Anyone who says it doesn't, doesn't really have enough experience with different sizes. Those who will accept a tiny penis lovingly LMAOOO well all the better for me, so I don't have to deal with it. There is nothing like a big fat long hard strong penis to put me to sleep!!!

Answer 7

Size shouldnt matter... as long as the man knows how to please his woman right!!! Its what i have always been told, but honestly if this person doesnt satisfy u then maybe u can talk with him and find other ways of doing so.???? I have heard to that the womans private gets accustom to a size, but like i said its not about how big... think about it

Answer 8

Honestly, If he's not satisfying you BECAUSE of the size, You may need to upgrade. If it's the technique that's the issues though, you may be able to train him. You have to make the call, "Does the Size actually matter for YOU. - Good luck

Answer 9

Have u noticed its mainly men that say size doesnt matter? They have a diff opinion on the size of our boobs! lol

In my experience, which isnt a lot i might add, but i have had both, and yes size definately matters! Nothing like the one that reaches places the other couldnt.
Sorry guys, just being honest!

Answer 10

I like what she said.

Its weird, isn't it? I find when I first like a guy, size doesn't matter, because I'm in the whole infatuation phase. When that fades though...you need something to keep you around..especially if you are not inlove. So let him know how to work you and hopefully the relationship can last.

But to your question...yes I have experienced that before...and its very disappointing.

Answer 11

if your relationship is based on sex and he isnt cutting the mustard then break up with him. or at lest tell him hes too small so he can leave you and find somebody else. it is a sensitive subject for men. he deserves to be out of that relationship. easy for me to say i'm hung like a derby winner.