okay see i told my friend i liked this guy and she said she likes him too and i ended up hooking them up and he broke up with her b/c he really didn't like her and now he wants to go out with me. should i or should i say no?????
2006-11-28 02:32:44 · 21 answers · asked by BRAT09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the question that you have to ask yourself is, if i was in my friends shoes, would i want her to go for the same guy??? Also have you talked to your friend about it??? How does she feel about it??? Just remember that you might lose two, with this dilemma!!! Is this guy playin you is another question? you have the answer within yourself. let your heart guide you, it knows you better than anyone. It wont lie to you. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-28 02:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by sheriff groupie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would u get them together if u liked him. Big mistake. I don't think your friend will appreciate it if u get with him now. She will see it as betrayal. What u should have don initially is not interefered with the situation at all and see which one of u he asked out.
2006-11-28 02:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldn't you if you like him? Why should you care about your friend and what your friend might think? It is your life and you should do what you think is best for you. However, don't go out with him just to spite your friend. I would tell you it is best to tell your friend that you went out with him after you do and that he didn't really like her and that is why he wanted to go out with you and if your friend doesn't understand then don't worry about it.
2006-11-28 02:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not. I have learned the hard way. Keeping friends is better than loosing one over the other.
2006-11-28 02:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A definite NO!! He just wants the goods of both of you. Don't even waste your time..and ur breaking the friend code anywayz. just let him be...
2006-11-28 02:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Virgo Fa Sho!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this is a good friend I would run it by her before you go.
2006-11-28 02:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Once a guy has dated one of your friends, he's off limits.
2006-11-28 02:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were nice enough to hook them up, then your friend shouldn't mind. i think you should say yes. if you dont like it then its easy to break up with him.
2006-11-28 02:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by tezzwilcox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess that depends on your friend.... have you talked to her. If she knew you liked him too and that they didn't really hit it off then I don't see why not.. I would go for it.
2006-11-28 02:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she really likes him and you value your friendship then forget him. Remember, boys come and go, but friends are forever!!
2006-11-28 02:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋