I am with my girlfriend from almost a year now. We are very close and love each other very much. Recently she found a new job in a new company. One of her male colleagues starts to chase after her even though he knows that I am with her. I trust my girlfriend but still feel a bit uncomfortable. She hopes to start a new career in this company.
So what is the correct solution to this issue?
2006-11-28 02:24:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either you trust her, or break knee caps
trust usually goes farther!
2006-11-28 02:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a little while from now,
If I'm not feeling anyless sour ,
I promise myself to treat myself
And visit a nearby tower
And climbing to the top will throw myself off,
In an effort to make it clear to who
Ever what it's like when you're shattered.
Left standing in the lurch at a church,
Where people saying 'my God
that's tough she's stood him up
No point in us remaining-
We may as well go home'.
As I did on my own.
Alone again, naturally.
To think that only yesterday
I was cheerful, bright and gay,
Looking forward to- well who wouldn't do
The role I was about to play.
But as if to knock me down,
Reality came around.
And without so much
As a mere touch
Cut me into little pieces
Leaving me to doubt
Talk about God in his mercy
Who if he really does exist,
Why did he desert me in my hour of need?
I truly am indeed
Alone again, naturally.
It seems to me that there are more hearts
Broken in the world that can't be mended.
Left unattende
What do we do?
What do we do?
Alone again, naturally.
Now looking back over the years
And whatever else that appears.
I remember I cried when my father died
Never wishing to hide the tears.
And at sixty-five years old
My mother God rest her soul.
Couldn't understand why the only man
She had ever loved had been taken,
Leaving her to start with a heart so badly broken,
Despite encouragemant from me no words were ever spoken
And when she passed away
I cried and cried all day
Alone again, naturally.
Alone again, natually.
2006-11-28 02:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with a bit of insecurity. If you trust your girlfriend this shouldn't even be a question. You will have people after your mate off and on throughout your life. The best thing to do is to not get the other person the time of day.
2006-11-28 02:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adopt a zero tolerance policy for cheating and let her know. Then don't snoop or question or act like this guy is of any concern to you, that would all be seen as weakness and insecurity and be giant strikes agianst you.
Put it all out of your mind and act confidant, trust and be happy and dump her without a backward glance if she cheats.
2006-11-28 02:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her how you feel.You really should not let a thrid party destroy your relationship and trust me it can happened.She should stop the guy from coming around her and if she wants to work there she better draw up the barreries now cuz it will be much harder later ,if words have not been exchanged already..
2006-11-28 02:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line-SHE needs to deal with the guy in an assertive way since she's the one working with him. If he absolutely won't leave her alone, she has the right to file harassment charges, but the ball is definitely in her court. I had to do this once. Not fun, but necessary.
2006-11-28 02:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by girlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! trust is all tht u need. u ve been wid each other for quiet a lot of time n i guess by now u must be knowing her in n out. i wud suggest if thr is somethg going on in ur mind, just let her know..probably she wud have the best answer n i m sure she wud make u the most secure. i feel these thgs shud not come in between her career. be a bit supportive n talk it over.its not at all her fault.
2006-11-28 02:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by shini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it...."you trust her." What's the problem? When she starts coming home late and has his name and phone number on her phone, then worry. Right now your just feeling a bit insecure. You'll be o.k. Don't do anything.
2006-11-28 02:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by darkangle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Julia Roberts reported herself for shooting an INTRUDER
2006-11-28 02:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do is let it ride...this is really beyond your control As long as she's putting off the guy's advances, you have nothing to worry about.
But...if she appears to be inviting this "intrusion", then I'd confront her about it.
2006-11-28 02:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trusting her. However tell HER that she has the right to tell this creep to stop chasing her and if he DOESN'T to file a sexual harassment complaint against him. Good luck in her new career!
2006-11-28 02:31:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋