I like my g/f but she told me she loves me and I just don't like her like that can someone please help me out.
2006-11-28 02:10:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunatley, she will be sad no matter how you do it. What I would suggest is to first tell her the things you like about her to soften the blow, and then let her know that she deserves to be with someone who feels as strongly about her and she does about him. I hope this helps, and good luck.
2006-11-28 02:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anne C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happened with me, i told my bf i loved him and he dumped me. It really hurt from my perspective but theres no way you can do it without hurting her.
Just tell her youd like to be good friends with her instead of in a relationship, keep it positive, act friendly, make sure she knows shes done nothing wrong, but give her an explanation and whatever you do try not to turn the break up into an argument.
Goodluck
2006-11-28 02:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can break it off with your girlfriend without hurting her. Especially if she has said she loves you. But the quicker you break it off the less it will hurt, the longer you string her along the worse it is going to be for you both. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.
2006-11-28 02:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you do to break up with her... its going to hurt.... but u need to be truthful with her. Tell her why you are breaking up with her. Explain that you just dont feel that way about her... this way she can have a learning experience... And if you arent looking for a longterm love realtionship then maybe when you start something with someone else you should make that fact crystal clear... maybe she just didnt know/understand that...
2006-11-28 02:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Hblasingame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never an easy way to break up with someone. You just need to be honest and tell her that you are not in love with her. If you don't share the same feelings with her then why are you still with her??
2006-11-28 02:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she nonetheless truly likes then you definitely that couldn't be accessible despite the indisputable fact that it would want to likely be least hurtful to her in case you instructed her precisely why you've been breaking apart which include her. also be constructive to describe to her that it's not her fault in besides (until eventually she is the reason behind the damage-up) and that you do not favor to harm her.
2016-10-07 22:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to break up with her without hurting her feelings.... but don't drag the relationship out any longer than needed. You should do it face to face and explain to her how you feel. Just be honest, and you might be able to remain friends...
2006-11-28 02:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Short answer is if she cares about you then they is not fool proof way to breaking up with her without hurting her. Just be honest, if she is sensible she should appreciate your honesty. rather that than find out you are only with her coz you feel bad about breaking up with her, or you end up cheating because you do not want to be with her.
2006-11-28 02:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't be possible to do this without hurting her. But, you should let her know that you don't feel the same way she does and move on. Not fair to either of you.
2006-11-28 02:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by his_scarlett_ohara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just be honest....because otherwise if you lie about the reason it will just make her more crazy and try to fix herself or something. Keep it simple and tell her nicely how you feel but you do want to be friends.
2006-11-28 02:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Yellowtulips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋