how bad do you think it is to get with a boy who has a girlfriend even if you really hate her and don't get on with her?
2006-11-28 02:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by Daphnie D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's bad for everyone. Bad for her, even if you don't like her you should have some basic human decency.
It's bad for him because he's a cheater and cheapening himself & the two of you.
It's bad for you because you're the other woman, you're a cheater along with him. & you could never trust him. The saying "If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you" is true. If someone lacks integrity then you can never count on them to be honest or faithful. Do you really want to be with someone like that? Quite frankly you don't have much integrity if you're wiling to be in this situation either. So why would he want to be with you? Or maybe you're both ******* & you deserve each other...
Sorry I get angry about infidelity. It's wrong. It's cowardly. Tell him if he doesn't love his girlfriend & wants to be with you then grow a set of balls & dump her BEFORE he starts seeing you. That's the proper way to do it, for those of us who have a conscience.
Good luck.
This attack of conscience & morals has been brought to you by amp, girl campaigning for an honest tomorrow!...
2006-11-28 02:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by amp 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's bad...really bad. It seems that the only reason you are getting on with this guy is because you don't get along...yes, even hate this girl. You could end up with this girl trying to hurt you physically, or even kill you. This happened about 15 years ago in Lancaster County, PA. Did you ever see the TV movie about the death of Laurie Show? It was a gruesome and senseless murder. It's not worth it. There are plenty of other nice guys around, so give it up and grow up.
2006-11-28 10:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Pablo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
very immature and not wise at all. Just because you don't like his gf have some commone respect for people. Would you like someone walking all over you like that. Also, if the guy is willing to cheat on his gf what does that say about his character? Not much.
Besides only about 10 percent of people who cheat end up with the person that they cheat with. I would think partly because both people have emotional issues they are bringing into a relationship and they started on unstable ground to begin with.
But if you want to start something with him and have all these complications to deal with go right ahead, you will regret it I am sure.
2006-11-28 10:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you think about the girl, doing something like this reflects badly on you! Do you want to be known as the girl who breaks up relationships? And if you do succeed and get together with this boy, do you think that he won't cheat on you too? Bad idea.
2006-11-28 10:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by slackster1998 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its bad for the girlfriend but its good for you..at least i'd do the same if i was a girl but since im a guy id cheat if i hated the dude but if i get along with him and am pals its cool but if the chic is married i aint going near her cuz im not a sinner that does adultery. but if she is a girl and just girlfriend and boyfriend then yea its alright cuz they dont have a signed contract that they're officially together unlike marriage.....that and the fact that guys cheat on girls and girls cheat on guys and you hear it everyday so i dont care. majority of the couples out there cheat with out the other knowing anything or lil about it.
2006-11-28 10:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by aninjashinobi25 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all that is a bad idea. if he really likes you then he will dump her and hang with you. even if you hate her you should still respect her as a human being. if you had a boyfriend and some ***** came and took him away how would you feel? pretty sh!tty uh! just please do it for all of us girls and not make yourself look like a s!ut!
2006-11-28 10:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by Oh_man_thats_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask, then deep down you KNOW....it's bad. Doesn't matter if YOU like the girl or not, the guy obviously does and you shouldn't interfere with that.
2006-11-28 10:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by his_scarlett_ohara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is bad. How would you like someone else to do that to you?
2006-11-28 10:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by sheba34 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pretty bad.. cant u just wait till he is single?
2006-11-28 10:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No biggie
2006-11-28 10:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋