George is my ex.I was his first and I think only g.f. the time we dated I had just gotten out of a bad relationship it wasn't the right time to be with someone else even though I really liked him. I think he thought I liked him more than he liked me and scared him off.we are talking again every once in a while.he's very busy with communting to school and work.I asked him if he wanted to hang out on winter break,he said maybe.I know George isn't that confident,epsecially with girls. I would think if George didn't wanna hang out at all he'd say probably not and that he was too busy. what do you think his reason was 4 saying Maybe?I did catch him off guard cuz I never call him and I wished him a happy bday.
2006-11-28 02:05:58 · 11 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really wanna tell him how I was feeling and why I feel things went wrong when we went out last winter break cuz there's a few big reasons. do you think after he realizes I wasn't being "myself" that then he'll wanna be with me again,cuz I know he still really cares 4 me and I hope that makes the difference cuz he told me he really liked me.
2006-11-28 02:08:46 · update #1
George and I are both in college. he just turned 22,I just turned 24
2006-11-28 02:10:56 · update #2
I NEVER had ANY kind of sex with George. we just made out. that's all. when i said I was his FIRST and only girlfriend I meant just that,not meaning that I was his "first" meaning first time with sex.
2006-11-28 02:34:13 · update #3
i think u should give george some time and just give him chanses to go out wit u. jus ask him casually when u c him to go to dinner or a movie. eventually he will realise that he doesnt need to be shy wit u. also thanks for picking me for best answer on ur other questins. my email is phillyburbsSteve@yahoo.com
2006-11-30 17:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Newtown PA Steven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on what you mean by G.F..
If you were just getting revenge sex with George and his emotions outstretched his penis, then all you need to do throw the booty at him and he will probably catch it (and hopefully nothing else) then you just have to match your emotions with your actions.
OR there is the possibility that the thought of spending more time with a person who can just throw away a perceived relationship has turned him GAY and that is why he is so cool to you.
OR same as above but without the gay part.
OR he might be involved with someone and is willing to trash her and jump on your bandwagon as soon as you pull into town and she was within earshot of your conversation.
OR aliens have invaded his body and it takes time to access the memories of their pod but the next time you talk he will seem normal.
2006-11-28 10:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by clic1_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuntately he told you the truth. He said maybe. He just didn't finish his answer with a reason. Maybe he will if he doesn't have anything better going on, etc.... If a guy really likes you it has nothing to do with if you had an awkward conversation or not. I think it means exactly what he told you with no hidden code in his words... maybe he will get together with you maybe not contingent on how he feels at the time.
2006-11-28 10:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay dont go to him have him come to you. its a game that he is playing with you trust me. make him see you without you having to say something to him. stand out above the crowd and do something that will put you out in front of everyone and he will notice that he should go spend time with you on winter break. dont go around and talk to other guys because then he will just think that you are a slut looking for a lay. not that you are or anything. but make him want to go with you. dont pressure him into doing something he might not want to do. if he really likes you then he will come to you. make him chase you. not the other way around.!
2006-11-28 10:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Oh_man_thats_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just try to relax am sure he did not mean that in a bad way.don't worry things will be ok just let them flow naturally.ok
2006-11-28 10:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him again. if he is like me(which is what you described) then he would like to know if you WANT to hang out with him or if you are being courteous enuff to ask him if he needs a friend for the holidays.
2006-11-28 10:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50 % truth and 50 % false. right guy should tell 100 % confidence level.
2006-11-28 10:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please.......
leave your ex alone.
i dont see why some of us women still want to love our exes when they dont give a dam about you.
im guessing that you are still in school.
if not, you should be even more ashamed of asking this question.
2006-11-28 10:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Little Black Riding Hood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like u said, prob caught him off guard and he wasnt sure of what to say...
i wouldnt worry bout it too much.
Im sure itll work out
2006-11-28 10:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is kinda scared and be patient time will tell
2006-11-28 10:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Shari J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋