he is my best friend, he shifted to another country...
and i really care about him... i mean love him...he says i am his best friend.
he has a gf there.. they fell apart and she said it was the due to the time he spent talking to me.
and anyways we are just talking right now..he said he just sees me as a friend... a really good friend... a friend for life... nothing more.... and he wonders why his gf doesnt understand that... that there are no feelings between us and he loves only his gf...
but he said they have so many problems otherwise... and he wants out with his gf
it is a sick feeling... i will always be a friend...
i was a good friend right now.. consoling him... i never once thot i wud be a part of the problem...
it hurts too much.... i am depressed
2006-11-28 02:00:04 · 5 answers · asked by L W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG!!!! i am in your shoes in the current moment!!! My guy friend of four years lives in Seattle, but is working out here in California. I so like him, but he only admires me as a friend, he loves to hang out with me, even get advise from me!!! what sucks is tht i recently told him tht i liked him & i feel weird & he's his normal self. i think tht a friend is unconditional, but we are trying to put conditions. i just think tht we have to hang in there & hope tht someone will admire us as, we admire them. sooner or later it will come!!!! Sometimes we as humans want to control, when, where & time. We just need to realize tht the time will come. We kinda have to open ourselves to the world & understand tht our love is One sided. Until then we are just hurting ourselves. they r nt the ones causing pain, we r!!!!! Be strong & hang in there. Somedays are harder than ours. But our time will come. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-11-28 02:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by sheriff groupie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happiness is just a state of mind. you decide if you want to be happy or depress the rest of your life. the world is beautiful so dont waste your time on persons who does not pay too much attention on you. look around you. there are lots of people waiting to be your friend.
2006-11-28 10:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In what way exactlly are u askijng for this happiness to date him or what .look just make up your mind to weather you want to be a friend of his or you just clear out if the picture.he takes as a freind so stop hurting yourself please just try and get yourself a man maybe then he may react and some feelings may come out that is if there are any in him.Take care and try to be happy
2006-11-28 10:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people do not take attention about their speeches and they always talk about sth that they really into and that may bore the other listeners,your friends situation might be like that or else as you told other problems with their relationship might caused to the break up.As he is your best friend and your true one , do not think that its the problem caused by you.Girl's stupididty does not mean to you! and you should be strong as your best friend is still yours :)
2006-11-28 10:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by lonelilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE WILL BE HAPPINESS FOR U 1 DAY.
2006-11-28 10:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋