2006-11-28 01:57:40 · 13 answers · asked by alexrombuc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's going to be upset. Only do that if it is really what you want, and you are willing to risk losing her for it. Things like this can really compromise trust in a relationship, even if you don't want anyone else. She may always wonder when you'll pull something like this again, and not want to let herself continue getting close to you, in order to protect herself.
2006-11-28 02:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that would depend on how you put it across to her.
I think first of all if she is the problem and you are taking a break from her because of her problem then it won't work simply because when you get back from your 'break' not much would have changed. If this is the case then it's best to discuss her 'faults' with her and have her do the same with you until the two of you can come to an understanding. If this doesn't work then this is how your future will be with this woman...though she may have good intentions you just may not be compatible with her personality.
If on the other hand your reason for a break has nothing to do with her then you should let her know this up front...and let her know what's stressing you as well.
Tell her that you don't want to hurt her in anyway but you need time away to sort out yourself and that when you do 'come back' that things will be better.
Don't stay away too long though because she may not be there when you get back!!
Good luck
2006-11-28 02:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by triniprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely not, this is something that usually puts someone on the defensive, in which case if you say this and she gets defensive then it will be next to impossible to reason with her any further....This is something that must be approached using the utmost in tact, and whatever you do, do NOT say it is anything she is doing, at least not at first, you are already going to tell her you need a break which will upset her, dont make it worse by saying, well you do this or that and whatnot....save that for when she is calmed down and ready to listen. If you dont want anyone else, make sure you stress that, and try to make it something you need to do for yourself, because you dont want to end up hurting her later down the road...If I knew her I could better advise on how to handle her but just be honest, make sure she knows you love her and are not interested in anyone else before you tell her you need space...perhaps say you still want to date but maybe not see each other every night, take some time off for yourself, but at least call her once a day to see how shes doing....hope I helped..
2006-11-28 02:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by dramafreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 08:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by lesniewski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it honestly depends on how long yall have been dating. every woman is going to get upset! but dont worry about whats best for her worry about whats best for you. tell her that you really need to talk to her about something that will hurt her but devastate you more! tell her that you dont want to move on but that you just want to take a break from women! tell her that its not you its her because you wanted to do it now before she gives you her best in the relationship and then 5 years down the road you ahve a change of heart and wasted her youth. tell her that you dont want to her her but it will hurt for a while but she is strong and she will realize that you are doing this for both of yall. i really wish you good luck!
2006-11-28 02:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Oh_man_thats_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's been dying to break up with you because she doesn't care about you any more, she will be upset. Breakups are no fun for anyone. Just be honest with her, but don't berate her.
2006-11-28 02:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man your going to break her heart no matter what you do... just be nice and explain to her whats going on in your twisted little head....
2006-11-28 02:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and talk with her and tell her what is going on with you and exactly why you need the break
2006-11-28 02:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
2006-11-28 01:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of woman are scared of loosing someone they love so sorry not at all.
2006-11-28 02:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by Shari J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋