I was in town the other day a girl that lives down the road from me had a bust up with her boyfriend. I offered her a lift home. When I dropped her off she asked me if I wanted anything for it and I said no I did not want anything for it and went home. Now when I see her in town she never says any thing to me she just stares at me for a while and looks away and then stares at me again for a while. any idea'S ON THE REAL MEANING OF THIS
2006-11-28 01:55:36 · 32 answers · asked by richie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she likes you, but she's pi ssed off that you just dropped her off and went.... i presume you didnt speak to her much.... she was after some attention and trying to start a conversation, that was made very awkward by the situation.....
speak to her, but you'll need to start again, SLOWLY, you missed your chance..
2006-11-28 02:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bmp1ksh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person bust up with their boyfriend or girlfriend, they intend to do strange things. This means they don’t think right. So, I think she is just want to take her stress out.
but you are smart, got her. now she might be hurted and stares at you as her enemy.
Be very careful in this kind of situation because they don’t have feeling for you but they will show you a lot of love. Guess what, once they get better from the stress they had, they will not give you attention as much as they did at the first. As the result, you might end up been hurt.
Good job.
2006-11-28 02:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by Peace4all 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you. You had the chance to steal a kiss when you dropped her at home. Its probably good that you didn't ask for anything because now you come across as the gentleman. I recon that's stuck in her head because she keeps watching you. If you like her, ask her out for a drink and see what happens. Worst case scenario, she'll say no to a date, but if anything, you can make a new friend.
2006-11-28 02:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you said anything to her since you gave her a lift home? Maybe she feels akward and is waiting for you to come over and say hi? Perhaps she feels a bit embarrassed after you gave her a lift home. Especially if she was upset following the argument she had with her boyfriend.
2006-11-28 02:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She given you the Homer look. You had it on a platter and you knocked the plate outta her hands. When a woman says something like that she is not expecting to go reaching into her pocketbook. You could have still been a gentleman and said something like hey I would ask you out but I think you deserve a few days to digest things but heres my number. If the offer is still on the table after that do give me a call I would love to take you out. Bamm!!! You just scored. She wouldn't be looking at you like she is now if you had said something. Dude we have a saying here....That one went right over your head! You didn't even see it. Shame on you!
2006-11-28 02:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was offering a `sexual favor.` But maybe not; it was a pretty open ended question. I would say she has some sort of intrest in you-if you are intrested in her try asking her to dinner. At the same time, it's got to make you wonder... If she was offering sex, would she have offered to someone else if it had been someone else that gave her a ride? Proceed with caution.
2006-11-28 02:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by burnettebreeze98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have 2 heads or bright yellow hair etc I would say she is interested in you. Be aware she has just had bust up though and could be feeling low and confused
Time will tell on this one - approach her say hello ask how she is just general chit chat that should give you some idea of whats going on in her mind with you
Good luck
2006-11-28 01:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She sounds mixed up. Perhaps her experience with men is that any kindness shown her by men has to be paid for in some way.
That might explain the looking/not looking business: in her world you are sending very mixed messages, whereas in your world, you did her a simple favour. She can't understand you any more than you can her, so she's trying to scope you out.
On the basis that she might be a very needy type - perhaps steer clear?
2006-11-28 02:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by tagette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she might be lonely and unsure of her self. Lacking in confidence, maybe even ashamed that u witnessed that situation.
She's probably one of those sensitive types who are afraid of approaching people that they would like to know and don't know how to go about doing so. Who knows?
With regards to her behaviour on the street I think she wants you to make the first move and say something.
talk to her next time you see hear!!!
2006-11-28 02:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Angeleyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by :if I wanted anything for it: you mean MONEY? If you want to know why she doesn't talk to you, why don't you ask her? Best way to communicate!!! My guess is, if she's staring at you, she likes you! If she looks away, she's a little shy! Do you like her. If so, talk to her. Unless, of course, her ex is going to beat the crp out of you. :)
2006-11-28 01:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by E L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not silly its natural to be curious.............she was feelling down and looked to you for comfort..............but you were just being friendly when you offered the lift and didnt expect anything from her. Its obvious the type of comfort she was looking for but its also good that you didnt take her up on it because she would have just been using you to get back at her boyfriend.
2006-11-28 02:00:58 · answer #11 · answered by life_vamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋