ive just turned 25, and my sex drive over the past couple of months has droped, arlamingly, when i was, say 23 i could *** about 5 times a day and still be horny, no problems, and women seemed like some wonderful drug, know at 25 im lucky to get 5 hard ons a day, and women seem like friends, im so scared by this , is this just a phase, or will the rest of my life be like this, its like being a billionare and going broke, or will i be like 23 again, i hope so, i dont whant to live this way, oh god i hope i stay like i used to be....
2006-11-28 01:16:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called growing up dude, we all have to do it.
2006-11-28 01:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Justincredible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry dear, in sexual terms you haven't even been born!
The best sex doesn't happen when you are young, your'e just brainwashed into thinking only young beautiful people are able to have sex.
Sorry to disabuse you of that notion. Old people, ugly people, yes, I'm afraid there are no barriers to enjoying congress!
Age and experience add an awful lot to the act aswell as being comfortable in your own skin.
I can't begin to imagine how awful it must be for a young chap, (oh my God how will I perform, can I keep it up) to sleep with one of today's, (sorry stereotype approaching) body and image conscious young girls (hope he doesn't notice my cellulite, can't do that position, it makes my bum look big, hope my eyelashes, false nails, chicken fillets don't fall out,off, must fix my make-up up before he gets close)
I blame the media!
2006-11-28 01:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by spamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really want to be sure about you , just go check your doctor do some tests and you will be sure of urself.It may be nornal and also not coz normally at that age guys normally still have their drive wether high or low but if maybe u have been very sexually active it may also affect you so i don't think anyone will tell you better than the doctor so just try that out
2006-11-28 01:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, perhaps its your subconscious mind telling you that sex won't make you happy.. if you use this as an observational tool, and notice your attachment to sex is what makes you suffer, this is great.. Start thinking with more of a selfless mind, there's 6 billion humans on this earth, and trillions of animals, and there's you.. all these other people have problems, if you want to lose your problems, focus on helping them deal with theirs..
2006-11-28 01:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU POOR BABY! I THINK THAT IT'S NORMAL TO HAVE A DROP IN YOUR SEX DRIVE AROUND THIS TIME IF YOU'RE A GUY CUZ' YOU BOYS HIT YOUR SEXUAL PEAK AROUND 19 AND 20. GIRLS DON'T REACH THEIRS TIL 'BOUT 25 TO 30 SO, BOO, YOU MIGHT JUST HAVE TO DEAL WITH 5 OR LESS HARD-ON PER DAY FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!
2006-11-28 01:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by BABY GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 29, and I've gone through periods where I wasn't as interested in sex as I used to be. You'll get over it.
2006-11-28 01:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass! You just hit a rut and most everyone does I believe. Don't worry! And when you feel better....look me up! LOL
2006-11-28 01:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by blonde b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your 70 years old not 25
2006-11-28 01:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Wael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a phase, normally men start their downs when they reach 30
2006-11-28 01:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by roro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a phase, don;t worry about it. as you age, your needs change
2006-11-28 01:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋