2006-11-28 01:10:33 · 13 answers · asked by thomas69235 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you trust her then you have nothing to worry about. If you don't trust her, then just end it. Without trust you have nothing. Do you honestly think she'll sleep with every man that's around? It is possible for males & females to be just friends. I would be suspicous of any female that watches football though. That's just weird! Tee hee! Sounds made up. Or maybe she's not a "girlie girl." In which case, you don't need to worry because she's a tomboy, just one of the guys. Are you sure she's straight?...Watch out for the female friends...
(Personally football bores me to tears! I hate all sports actually. If I said I was going to watch football with a male friend, you should be very very concerned. Of course I'm not that underhanded. If I was attracted to & wanted to be intimate with someone else, I'd break up with you first. I'm a one man woman!)
Seriously though, good luck. I understand what it's like to be jealous & insecure. But if you try to forbid her from seeing her friends she'll resent you & feel trapped & probably leave you. Listen to your heart. Do you trust her or not? Insecurity may be your issue & nothing to do with her? Sometimes it's hard to trust though. A lot of people do sleep around. At the end of the day the only person you can be sure of is yourself. You never really know another person completely. You just let yourself trust & hope for the best...if someone cheats then you leave them & find a decent person. Worrying about something doesn't stop it from happening it just gives you insomnia. And ulcers.
2006-11-28 01:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. At one time I had mostly guy friends. I still have a few that I talk to. My b/f has no trouble with it because he knows where I'll be sleeping tonight. Insecurity is bad. I love my b/f for his lack of insecurity. We trust each other completely, and have never given each other any reason to not trust each other.
2006-11-28 09:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is if you trust her not doing nothing with them while they are watching football one on one
2006-11-28 09:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by coulson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard to call, if you try to keep her away from them then she will feel pocessed, and controled, that would be a major turnoff. Maybe you should go with her, make friends with them, if her friends like you then that is very good for you in return she will like that.
2006-11-28 09:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by n.hendrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bestfriend is a guy and my husband give me grief about it. in our case we are only friends, but his wife claims to have male "FRIENDS" and is pregnant with another man's baby. so i guess you never really know if they're just friends. ask to tag along and if she says no then there maybe something there.
2006-11-28 09:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can enjoy football, and it shouldn't automatically be suspicious if she does. I think you might lose her quickly if you don't let her be herself or if you act so suspicious of her so very soon in your relationship.
Why not ask if you can join in?
2006-11-28 09:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by the_weasel_wizard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. They guy will put the moves on her and she will bang him.
Put your foot down and stop this now.
2006-11-28 09:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you are jealious of your girl friend lol.well you shouidnt have a girl friend or be in a realionship if you dont trust her.
2006-11-28 09:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could if you trust her completely.But, if not maybe you should talk to her about it somehow.Who knows, maybe she isn't as faithful as you think.
2006-11-28 09:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by fade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Don't get possessive.
2006-11-28 09:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋