I meet this really lovely girl and we really get along but when I told her that I smoked she said that I wasnt what she was looking for I asked her why and she insisted it was the smoking.
Anyway I dont smoke very much and am trying to quit.... She keeps on txting and emailing me. Asking why I dont speak to her anymore. I thought that she had rejected me and was finished with me.
Should I now give her a second chance as she had aleady rejected me once....?
2006-11-28 01:08:57 · 25 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Way!
2006-11-28 01:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by jussac 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe her staying in contact with you just means that she likes you. however she doesn't want a relationship with you because of the smoking (by the way the only way to quit is to just stop smoking!)
either way definitely give her a second chance. life is too short and love is too hard to find and we all make mistakes.
2006-11-28 01:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Empress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you've quit smoking, take her out for a nice meal and wait until she starts eating... then pull out the biggest Cuban cigar you could find, light it up and blow the smoke in her face. Then say to her in your best Arnie voice, "You I know I said I'd quit smoking? I LIED!" Emphasise that last bit by leaning forward and blowing more smoke in her face.
2006-11-28 01:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her you should giver her a second chance. There are some people out there that generally can't go out with a smoker as they don't like the smell or taste of cigarettes. She obviously really likes you if she has stayed in contact with you so give it another go if you like her.Best of luck
2006-11-28 01:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by Soph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! forget her, then it was the smoking next it will be i dunno eating chewing gum or something. honestly i think she rejected you on looks alone. then the fella she was interested in knocked her back. you are her fall back guy! she is stuck for a date on friday night and getting desperate. you done the decent thing ignoring her, keep up the good work.
given the ratio of women to men and if she is stuck for a date, does that not tell you something about her.
2006-11-28 01:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should not give her a second chance but just ask her once that if she really meant it but if she really with true heart loves u then she should come and not u because even I'm a girl and they like that boys run after them but not me
2006-11-28 01:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she rejected you or your behavior? Smoking is a choice. A VERY bad choice, but still a choice. Is your behavior your identity? I would think not. You can change your behavior, and you should. Who wants to smell that putrid, foul stinch?
2006-11-28 01:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha she wants your attention, hate it when girls do that. now she probably doesnt care if you smoke or not, i guess give her a second chance and if she acts the same way again, forget about her
2006-11-28 01:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO!!! You should go on with your life and find a person who smokes with you. If she doesn't like the way you are, then she is not the one for you. Peace.
2006-11-28 01:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by Marvino J 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-11-28 01:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hello!
She is interested, really lovely, you get along well, and you don't know what to do?
What are you smoking?
2006-11-28 01:15:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋