Why do guys hide it even when you say your fine with it?Why do they prefer to watch it on their own?Not with their girl friend?Why do they pick times like when youve just had a baby and feel like s@@@ to watch it?
2006-11-28 00:59:45 · 29 answers · asked by odd socks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are inconsiderate and they don't realise the depth of your feelings against it. My husband is the same way, even though i say it hurts my feelings or i feel in competition for his attention he says that it's "not real" so not to worry. But if it's not real why is he looking? I think especially when you've just had a baby is the worst time for him to be looking at it too.
2006-11-28 01:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, we males are not very smart all the times. As said by robin williams, God gave man a brain and God gave man a penis, but only enough blood to run one at a time.
I personally prefer to watch porn with my girlfriend as it gives new ideas and inspirations.
I would reccomend you talk with him about it, however being you just had a baby, it is obviously not possible for you and him, but he still feels the need for it.
If you would criticize him about watching porn just because you recently had a baby, then that is the reason he hides it from you.
2006-11-28 01:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by dedicated-to-one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need a release, hiding it is a mix of embarrassment and respect. We watch it on our own because its wrong w@nk in the same room as someone else. Including the missus. IF however you wish to watch together then fine no probs.
Would you prefer he went looking elsewhere to the find release?
2006-11-28 01:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by robdunf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've watched it with my partners, I like it more when it's their idea to get it out though as it makes it all the more positive. I like to see her get turned on by it and do something about it there and then. No shame in that just an ultimate turn on for both
I guess the post pregnancy thing ,maybe he needs a little alternative stimulation because seriously it's like throwing sausages down O'Connel Street for 6 months after childbirth
2006-11-28 01:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a guy thing.. that's all. I told my ex he could go with his friends to a strip club and he was like no... but did it anyways behind my back. why, I don't know.. Maybe your man gets a little embarrassed watching with you.. Talk to him about it. I don't mind it either, they don't have to lie about it. O' and they do it when you just had a baby cause they know they can't get it for another 6 weeks.. congrats on the baby and good luck.
2006-11-28 01:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by gamustanggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind him watching porn. They prob. hide it because they know a lot of times when we say we are OK with something that we are not. Men Have bad timing. I am sure he doesn't mean to make you feel worse maybe talk to him about it.
2006-11-28 01:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say i dont care, but we all know what that really means in "lady talk". lol. I prolly feel that way cause he is my husband and i dont understand why I cant be good enough. even though i am. hmmm.. though it is nice when i get out of the shower and he is watching it waiting for me.
2006-11-28 01:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they know it is not totally right to watch it (if they felt it is the right thing to watch, they wouldn`t be hiding it). And because they know their girlfriends won`t like that they watch it.
2006-11-28 01:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by ☆Dana☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very personal thing. There is so much stigma attached to porn that you're never really sure how someone's gonna react to it or you having it. That's why we send out feelers to see what women think of it and if it is positive we share.
2006-11-28 01:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Weave 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
b/c man can be jerks. sex is the number one thing on their minds. they can't stop thinking about it. they can't help it. as for me i really never got into porn. i think it is nasty watching other people get it on. if my man wants it bad enough he will come to me for pleasure instead of a porn show and whacking himself off....sorry guys that is my opinion
2006-11-28 01:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by mmh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋