I'm 38 yo & never dated,never been in a relationship & I'm not sure if I ever will.I happen to like girls as much as- or maybe even more than- everyone but for some odd reason they don't seem to like me.I've tried the direct approach, the friends_first approach and nothing works. I'm better than OK financially,my looks are better than average & I am a successful professional as well.I have no sever physical , psychological or social problems .
What's wrong with me & how can I change my miserable situation?
2006-11-28 00:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by Wondering 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write a script and send it in. Maybe they can make a movie out of it.
2006-11-28 00:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Luv My Corgi 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All you can really do is be yourself and don't try too hard, otherwise they will tend to bail on you.. be easy going, open and relaxed. First dates are hard enough, so make it easy on both of you and go somewhere casual like a bar or cafe for a drink and chat. Try to find out as much as you can about her... nothing too personal of course. The conversation will flow better if both parties are comfortable and dont feel like they are being judged straight out. If you both want to catch up after the initial date, then move it up a notch and go somewhere/do something original... that other guys havent taken her.... after that just go with the flow I guess. Im no Casanova or chick magnet myself, Im still trying to work them out:) Best of luck!!
2006-11-28 00:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by chakortair 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow....are you for real? I would suggest that you talk to someone and see if you can figure this out....there has to be something going on to reach the age of 38 and you've never dated? The other option is try match.com or some other dating service and see if you can't start meeting some women casually in the hopes that you will meet someone that you are compatible with...I wish you luck....
2006-11-28 00:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you cannot identify the problem yourself, it's time to ask your friends and family what is wrong with your approach. Ask them to be brutally honest. Or the next time a woman shoots you down, ask HER to be brutally honest.
You have to know what the problem is before you can fix it. And it would be almost impossible for a successful, good-looking, normal guy to get to the age of 38 without dating. So...what's the real problem?
2006-11-28 00:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Karen L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with you, you ask? Thats simple, its YOU. As long as you think the way you are thinking now. You will always be without a girl or lady friend. You have to change your thinkingthinking, you have to believe you are attractive not average you are it. You are Gods gift to women. You have to believe it and feel it. Don't look down on yourself,you are what women are looking for.Now get out there and go for it.
2014-03-06 08:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls may think that you are to good for them or maybe you have a girl already. If I met you and you were really good looking, my first thought would be that your already taken .. So maybe they feel that you are to good to be true.. That they are not up to your standers. so maybe you need to tone it down and don't let them know that you are professional successful. You know. so relax and throw a t-shirt and jeans on and act like you don't have a care in the world.. Let them come to you. And don't act so conceded.. just saying.. send me a pic and I'll let you know.... :)
2006-11-28 00:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by gamustanggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww.thats sad 4real,but I say DONT GIVE UP...I'm pretty sure lots of woman would LOVE to go out with someone like you.Maybe it's your approach...try something new.Good luck though:-)
2006-11-28 00:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with you is that you think something is wrong with you. turn it around and believe that everything is right with you and so will others. people including women are attracted to confidence without arrogance and success, think success and be positive
2006-11-28 00:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try being sweet not direct. Don't be shy and ask a woman out. It's not that difficult.
2006-11-28 00:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Inez 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what in the hell did your mother do to you??
2006-11-28 00:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋