My boyfriend and I have just gotten into my-space. We like to find old friends and e-mail current ones. A couple of months ago I found out he had been e-mailing a couple of other women and flirting with them. He had even tried to make arrangements to meet with one. I was hurt and crushed. Now that he is on my-space he gets angry when I ask him not to be "friends" with women I don't know. He said he hates my insecurities. Has anyone else had a partner that is addicted to the internet or my-space? Is it cheating when they are chatting with strangers? How do I get over this?
2006-11-28 00:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is having a conversation on line, even if it is flirtatious, it isn't cheating (at least I don't feel that way). Flirting is a healthy part of life and keeps us feeling good about ourselves. If he is trying to meet with someone that he has been flirting with, there may be a problem. If your relationship is strong and true, just be open with him on how you feel. Maybe you could ask him just not to try and meet these women. If you are still having problems dealing with the flirting or the addiction, just remember this; he is probably talking to some old man pretending to be a woman. If you really want him to get away from the computer more, say that stuff to him. "So how is your boyfriend, I mean girlfriend today." Stuff like that may turn him from his interest, and ruin his fantasy. You may also give him a dose of his own medicine. Get on line and flirt with boys and make sure he sees it. He may realize how you truly feel and change his ways. Above all be happy with yourself and remember that if things don't work out between the two of you that there are always other things in life that will make you happy. If you want to share your life with someone, that person will find you at the right time in your life.
2006-11-28 00:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by brandy.brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
myspace causes so many problems ...I think he is cheating or would cheat and he's blaming your so called insecurities to avoid having to explain his behavior. I dated 2 guys who were internet junkies & myspace addicts & I found out that they were cheating all along and dating/meeting other women. If you want to worry about it forever and be distrustful then stay with him, if not..move on. Even if you ask him to stop myspace it will cause resentment between the 2 of you and most likely he'll be dishonest about it anyway. My advice is to get away from him, don't accept any excuses. Sounds like you are his meantime girl, not his dream girl. Good luck.
2006-11-28 08:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace is the root of all evil, so many relationships lost over a friend list. That was the worst thing ever. Tell him to lose the space, or you. That simple.()
2006-11-28 08:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it involves a bit of techie stuff
just browse to a directory something/windows/system32/drivers/etc here u will find a file called hosts open this file using wordpad or notepad and add this line
my-space.com 127.0.0.1
wallah he wont be able to browse the site at all
2006-11-28 08:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by godfather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry you are right to be concerned --- he is cheating if he considers other ladies before you --- especially if he is making arrangements to meet
let him know how you feel and if he does not respect your wishes it may be time to move on
2006-11-28 08:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it feels i think they are on their way to cheating its hurtful to the people who love them, i think we are in trouble good luck on your end
2006-11-28 13:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋