me and my ex boyfriend went out for 4 years.now hes going out with another girl but he doesnt look happy to me and neither am i.i get this feeling that he wants us to get back wed each other from the way he talks to me the way he behaves wed me.i still feel for him but im scared of being heartbroken again.this wasnt the first break up.i really dunno wot to do.its like i wanna get back wed him but i dont.helpppp!!!!!
2006-11-28 00:08:39 · 10 answers · asked by rayan k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask your self if you really want to go through all the same problems again, as it sound like neither of you have learned any thing from this
2006-11-28 00:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are funny, there you are all ready to go back with him & he knows nothing about it. Who says he wants you back. It's not the first time you've broken up & I assume not the first time he's ended up with someone else either. What is it with some females? their ex is quite happy where he is yet they (the ex g/f) seems to think he's spending every waking hour longing for her arms to be around him. Let me assure you, IF he wanted you back he'd finish with the g/f he has now, even if he didn't have the courage to ask you to go back with him he'd still get rid of her. He knows he doesn't stand a chance with a new g/f hanging about so why IF he wanted you would he still be with her?
Why do you want to behave like a little lapdog waiting on the sidelines. Where is your pride?
Let sleeping dogs lay & go & get a life of your own. IT'S OVER.
Oh & by the way...WED is when someone is getting married. wed? short for wed(ding)
WITH is how you spell with.
2006-11-28 00:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to anyone but yourself i am going through the same thing. always follow what your heart says i was with a girl 3 and a half years and we just recently broke up. Because she has gotten all depressed because her family divorced and she was really close with her fam. She now is dating a guy complete opposite of me i know she is not happy because when ever i see her she looks like crap now huge bags under her eyes and she has lost a lot of weight. Just hang in there leave him alone for a while and he will come back let him think you dont care anymore. If it is meant to be hell be back but follow your heart dont do anything dumb try and move on but always leave that spot for him incase he returns if you truely love him.
2006-11-28 01:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by lilpimptk101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is diverse in Western society, yet nonetheless an same question bothers many human beings. issues have replaced a lot at the same time as divorcees were kept away from through society in the 1950's. yet now the divorce price is over 50%, so worry-free that no human being appears to be like embarrassed about it now. you're top no longer to stay with a guy that is abusing you. i'm a Christian and believe that marriage between one guy and one lady is a lifelong dedication between equals. it isn't basic (I truly were married 34 years) at cases, from time to time human beings replace and strengthen aside, yet once you've the actual issues in worry-free - worry-free hopes, desires, and aspirations - it really is way less puzzling to get through in the longer time period. Your mom and father can choose you badly and individuals too, yet that does no longer replace your properly worth - you're significant to God and to many others round you who love and fee you. you may want to take solace in that and want that in some unspecified time sooner or later your mom will see issues your way. if you're able to stay and not using a husband and do not favor to develop a relations, then why marry? My daughter is 24, no longer courting, operating complete time, and satisfied to be unmarried. She isn't adversarial to marriage, yet doesn't experience any pressure to get married. My spouse and that i are satisfied for her because all of us recognize that if she does discover someone to marry, it will be because the time is ideal for her and they're going to be very pleased. I agree that divorce is erroneous, yet I also imagine that acquiring married because society demands it really is likewise incorrect. Come to the US and also you'll see the version. sturdy success and follow your perception. I wish you the finest!
2016-10-07 21:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be. The new girlfriend doesn't deserve this, you two talking behind her back and you wanting him back. Let him deal with his current relationship and see whether it works for them. It's not going to be any better if you get back together, if he wants you back then he's lying to his current girlfriend and you shouldn't trust him. If not he could just be sending off the signals because he's comfortable with you.
2006-11-28 00:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Skippy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even go there.If u still havent sorted your problems out and broke up many times it doesnt sound good. I still love my ex despite his cheating, but i would never put myself thru that again. no point. Sometimes you just have to move on.
2006-11-28 00:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im in the EXACT same problem rite now... and from the way mine is goin... i kno that we will end up bak together but it will take some time... hes not happy wit who hes with... he does want u its jus hard after a break up n he needs some time... mine is goin thro a "bein a hoe" stage... so... jus give it time!
2006-11-28 00:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by *kat* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to get back with him, and he's not happy because you keep stalking him.
2006-11-28 00:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't flatter yourself love hes probably only lookin annoyed cos your followin him everywhere
2006-11-28 00:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by england til i die 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how u feel you may be shocked at the way he feels
2006-11-28 00:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋