I met my girl online and we have been together for a year now but we don't live in the same state. I go to see her all the time. She's older then me. Everyone thinks she's "Playing" me and when I was up to see her last her friend even said to me "When the money is gone and you're down and out, she'll be gone too". "She's all about the money". Last night she was in a chatroom and a friend of mine said that I should check it out so I went in as someone else and someone asked her if she was "Single" she said "lol I take the 5th lol". I had emailed her to tell her that I missed her and she didn't respond. It was like she was too busy in that chatroom. I'm tired of the games and the bs. How do I confront her. OR do I just leave her? I do love her. But she won't leave the chatrooms alone.
2006-11-27 23:20:58 · 14 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you say you are together when it's an online romance? Have you ever met in person? Are you sure it's even a girl? You don't know what you are dealing with when it's all online.
2006-11-27 23:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this.......she met you in a chatroom. The way I see it is that you say you love her does she love you? Love is something you don't have to doubt if you two are really in love then she would do what it takes to make the relationship work she would at least try to compromise and if she won't then u need to move on there is somebody for u.
2006-11-27 23:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she won't leave the chatrooms alone then by all means you should leave her, because she doesn't come to see you, and it sounds to me she doesn't love you. You ought to find someone else who appreciates you for you.
2006-11-27 23:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling mate. U just have 2 talk 2 her about it. Sounds like she's a bit of a gold digger! Find someone who really appreciates u because it doesn't sound like she's interested at all.
2006-11-27 23:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kasey J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess she just like to chat when she is bored. She lives in another state I would heed her friends warning. Does she come to see you? If the relationship is one sided then I would stop visiting her. Money cant buy you love.
2006-11-27 23:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her friend...she obviously knows her and has probably been through this with her before....wake up and smell the coffee....she is playing you and you are wasting your time and money on her......Find someone else who lives closer to you that you can have a real relationship with...good luck
2006-11-27 23:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best advice to you is to find a girl where you live & leave the the internet alone as a dating tool.
2006-11-27 23:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another one. With some women it is always about money. Just because they get older does not mean that they will change.
2006-11-27 23:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sharing is a very important concept when talking about love ...sharing feeling ,sharing moments and sharing place ... sometimes one concept makes it up for another concept in another words ..if you both are not the same place your feelings and your true love will overcome the long distance it till you rejoin ....
but when you don't have true love or true feelings you will not be able to handle the distance ...and believe me love is something bigger than a chat room ...love must be respected ..my advice leave her ...she has already left you ..
2006-11-27 23:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur gettin played big time, drop the garbage, there are better ppl out there who wont use u 4 the size of ur wallet.....its obvious she dont love u like u love her, othawise she wouldnt b flirtiin online like that,
i have a sister exactly like this girl...trust me they arnt worth it, wot she takes fm ur soul n heart will neva fully heal.
leave b4 she takes it all
2006-11-27 23:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by trishy_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋