I like a girl who is christian and highly religious and we know each other since long. Now we're looking to be more than friends and being close to each other. But she says she can't have sex with me before marriage. How to convince her to have it? I can't marry her but she's too good to resist and too hard to let go.
2006-11-27 23:18:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I don't need useless answers like "Adelina's"
2006-11-27 23:21:23 · update #1
NO USELESS ANSWERS I SAID!
2006-11-27 23:21:42 · update #2
How about this:
*Tell her it must be okay, because Catholic priests and televangelists do it all the time...
*Remind her that Jesus himself said that the faithful should be able to handle snakes...
*Tell her that the first people really beloved by God were always naked.
*Use the old "Be fruitful and multiply" approach.
*Ask her if she knew that the phrase "Oh God" is the most common phrase women use during sex, so there must be a connection.
*Don't even bother using any of these lame @ss ideas. Just dump the little goody-two-shoes. She may be hot, but a 7 that puts out is infinately better than a 10 that doesn't...
-SD-
2006-11-27 23:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
So you can't marry her, but you just want to have a taste of what she's like?!!!!
Let her go. She's a girl with principals and don't try to change that because if you do succeed, she will no longer be that girl you liked.
Find a non virgin who does not mind to have sex with you on no marriage basis and leave that girl alone to follow her beliefs.
And you have to learn that not every different point of view is useless!!! Adelina is completely right.
2006-11-27 23:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by rinah 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand your problem. You can't convert her. So what you gotta do is this: You have to take things slow..a touch here, and oh so ever little more there. These are called salami tactics and are HIGHLY effective. Meaning there's no point she should be able to say, hey that's enough, cause everything is going so slowly. Then move into SLIGHTLY heavier touching. Arm round waist - just by accident the first time - and then more regularly. You get the picture.
Soon her biological drives will overpower her religious ideas. And for god's sake use a condom. If she objects, don't tell her you're using one.
2006-11-27 23:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Bhagwad 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok, you may or may not consider this useless but don't play with her like you are all you want from her is sex and she si trying to save herself for soomeone special ( who you obviously are not ) don't damage her like you are thinking of doing you are going to hurt her in a way that you have no concept of. Be honest with her tell her the truth that you like her but not enough to marry. Just because you don't want to be the one to make her happy doesn't mean she doesn't deserve happiness besides what you have in mind for her is misery you want her to give up her convictions for the sake of giving them up, not even for love just because you want sex, You have to grow a pair and be a Man Choose and to be honest if you care for her in the least imagine everything you are going to do to this girl all the cheating how you are going to dump her and give her thelessor of two pains tell her the truth.
2006-11-27 23:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by t_j_watkins 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Religious people are not worth getting involved with. They are usually so repressed that the sex (once you pay their price) is no good anyway. There are a lot of hot down and dirty women out there who don't waste their lives believing in a deity driven delusional reality. They are more realistic and more fun to be with and won't try to force some superstitious life style down your throat as the cost of a little nookie.
2006-11-28 00:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never never NEVER have sex with a virgin, unless you are married. You will never get rid of them. Especially when it's someone who attaches great importance to sex, and believes that it binds two people together forever. Do you want that? If so, just marry her. If not, run far far away.
And yes, I'm all about respecting her wishes, but there's some very practical advice.
2006-11-27 23:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by angk 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I pray she don't give in. She, right for not having sex with you and not married. Respect her enough to move on and get one of those out there that have no morals about them selves and willing to give in to you. sex and no marriage. If she's good enough to have sex with why cant you make a commitment and marry her if you want her that bad.
2006-11-27 23:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by blesshisname2005 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I'm on her side. You sound like you want sex with her for your own pleasure, and her considerations (like no sex before marriage) is secondary. If you find her so good, why can't you marry her?
2006-11-27 23:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please dont be mad but you can not really convince her to have sex outside marriage, for it is sin. many time the Bible says that do not clothe yourself with sexual immoralities...example of this are Gal.5:19-21; Eph. 5:3; Col. 3:5-6....and take note that are bodies are God's temple 1 Cor. 3:16...so respect our bodies...
2006-11-27 23:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by alexjem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the answers like "respect her & her religion" seems foolish to u, then u must try for some other one...
No don't u ever go near that pious girl....
Do u want to drag her too, to hell fire with urself???
Please dont think this way....
2006-11-27 23:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by just curious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋