Here's the deal; the love of my life Lauren is visiting her father and brother who live out of state. They are trying to get her to leave me and move 1,700 miles away. Her dad is basically offering her a free ride to do this. He is offering to pay her way with just about everything, send her back to college, pay her bills, car etc... He has never met me, so he doesn't understand that his daughter is my life. I would walk to the ends of the world to get her back. He doesn't like the fact that I am in the entertainment industry and I can be a 'has been' any minute. While I do well now, that's not good enough for him. I set up an e-mail address for you all to send letters to, laigner06@comcast.net, These are for her to read. I would GREATLY appreciate it if you could say stuff like, "Kevin thinks the world of you. We are all pulling for you two", "Stay with Kevin" etc... Anything reallyCan you also mention that you love the film, "On the line" She has just learned 1 of my 'writing names'.
2006-11-27 21:50:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Lauren means the world to me. I can't lose her, especially to a man who left her when she was little. Please, I beg of all you to help me. If you know how it feels to want to give the world to someone then you know how I feel.
2006-11-27 21:50:38 · update #1
So, you're asking me to lie for you, and cyber-stalk someone I've never heard of?
Thanks, but I don't think so.
Good luck.
2006-11-27 21:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Minmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, if she's an adult, they can't make her do anything she doesn't want to do. If she loves you then no amount of money in the world will tempt her away from you. If the same offer was made to you (that you'd get a free ride and your bills paid, etc.) would you do it?
I think the more important question is whether or not you are as important to her as she is to you. If she takes the bribe to move away from you then you didn't really have the relationship you thought you had. It may even be possible that she's using this as an excuse to leave but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. It sucks, but there's no other way to put it, and you're better off knowing it now.
However, if she turns her dad down, then you've got someone who's worth more than you could ever bargain for - and don't forget how much you owe her for it.
Good luck.
2006-11-28 08:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to stay she will, nobody can make you change your mind. But If she REALLY loved you she would turn down everything to be with you. If she goes back to her Dad, then she never loved you, she loves the money.
2006-11-28 06:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would truly do anything for her, than move with her and make things work. That's the difference between saying and doing.
2006-11-28 10:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over her... There will be another. At this moment you'd do anything until something goes wrong. Then you'd hate her guts so just save the drama and leave her alone.
2006-11-28 05:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how is a bunch of strangers suppose to help you keep your relationship together.... this is something you have to do for yourself... if she truly loves she will stay with you...... how old she... perhaps bettering her life isnt such a bad idea
2006-11-28 10:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i truly felt your sincerity to lauren, but dude leave everythin to God. don't force anythin to happen because you want it. maybe, God has another plan for you so better pray for it. God Bless!
2006-11-28 05:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and let her decide...
2006-11-28 06:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
copy and paste you question and send it to her and her parents, she will see how you feel!
2006-11-28 05:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by meshell b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋