What do you girls look for in a man besides one that will treat you like crap or how much money a guy has(regardless if hes rich or not{I do not divulge my bank account})
2006-11-27 21:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by davo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it just seems that "nice guys do finish last" in the world of mature dating.. thats all
2006-11-27 21:57:32 · update #1
I know what you mean, some girls I know are like that, but it is a load of bollocks, to be honest most of them have probably been hurt and are trying to avoid it so look for the superficial things that "have a guarantee". However most level headed girls I know do not want that as they can provide for themselves. It is about self respect if you ask me, y would i chose to be in a relationship chose to have the piss taken put of me?? y would i need someone Else's money when I can more than provide for myself?? however neither do i want a guy whom I have to provide for either, if he is able to work then he should do so, just like i do. If someone gave me a guarantee that a certain guy was going to be faithful, respectful and was a good person, but he wasn't rich, then I would snap up that guy without a doubt over a arrogant fool that earns so much he is probably so up his own **** that it moves when he talks and is probably so consumed in his own world that i probably won't see him anyway. Do get me wrong he needs to be career driven and ambitious but not to the point or cost of the quality of life. It is often the small things that people do not appreciate in life, trust me that timed phone call at the end of a bad day just to say "how are you?" is what it is all bout.
2006-11-27 22:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay lets get this clear all women are different SOME of us care about money some of us dont. Me personally i dont care if hes rich i just want him to be able to support himself. If a girl doesnt like you cause your bank account aint big enough then shes not worth the time. Personallity keeps girls and Looks get girls attention usually. I rather have a guy whos understanding nice caring and OK looks then a guy who is a jackass but looks amazing. But i know allot of other girls who think the complete opposite but those girls usually have no real feelings. Hopefully this helped some hun!!
2006-11-28 05:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by sarahhxoxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just got out of a relationship where I was treated like crap. Frankly I'm tired of it. I've dated guys with a lot of money not because they had it because I really cared for that person. I look for a man that can be a friend and a lover.
2006-11-28 05:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll_y2g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for one with a sense of humour and intelligence- personally, I don't think looks matter just personality. I look for men that click with me and are decent people- though I will say that having a "bad" streak helps, but only if you have it and DO NOT use it. Being treated like crap is not fun.
2006-11-28 06:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by lexxi_bananas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want a man that can stand by me thru thick and thin and he have to understand me, my spoken and body language. Like the other time I was saying something (in a joking manner but was in fact upset over it) and was pretending i'm not upset over it. The next moment my guy hugged me and said "darling its okie, I am here"
Without me saying anything more or crying, he knew wad to do already.
2006-11-28 05:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Madish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Relax it seems like someone made you hurt. Some of us woman are just looking for an honest man to love us and be loyal not all woman want your money some of us just want your love.
2006-11-28 05:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One I take offence to that not all women are like that. I for one do like the nice guys if I am going to be with a guy he has to be
Smart
Funny
Mature
Friendly
Kind
Caring
Respects women
playful.
2006-11-28 06:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hold up, have you been hurt or something? well women like to be treated fairly. They also want love and protection. But then again all women are different. for instance in my case i prefer guys who are sweet and loving, and has all the characteristics that i want. as in the love for his family. that is truly important to me.
2006-11-28 05:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by AnnaDaAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i as a woman want a man who supports me , loves us , cares 4 me,understands me, becomes a true frnd wen neede n wipe my tears off, makes me laugh wen i m cryin , makes me happy wen i m frowning, who cums home after hard work n tell me dear i missed u today ,who wen cums 2 me i feel dat he's my world , money although needed is not d important component needed 4 an ideal man in my life.
2006-11-28 06:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by jaspriya m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really care about money. I just care about being slapped around and emotionally abused. That's what I look for.
2006-11-28 05:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋