my life has been simple and dull.
i wake up everyday and find everything around me meaningless.
i don't have interest and hobbies.
i don't interact much with people because i am not interested.
simply because i am a demure person. not that i have a problem but i choose to live my life that way.
i can be very crazy when i play. but then again i choose not to because i find others not interesting.
i am not selfish or arrogant. it's just that i know what i want in life.
i never had true happiness in my life.
i have lost interest in everything.
the only thing that can make me happy in life is when i have found my true love.
i believe only the one i truly love can bring happiness to me.
and she is the only one who can make me smile again.
the time when i truly smile again is when i see her.
and when i smile, i smile delightfully.
2006-11-27 21:08:56 · 15 answers · asked by I am marrying her only. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i conclude that the real meaning in life for me is to devote all my time to her for the rest of my life and to share happiness and sorrows.
2006-11-27 21:49:03 · update #1
That's so sweet and so sincere! But I have to wonder...how will you ever meet her if you don't give yourself (and her) the chance? It almost appears as if you have already met her and you're waiting for her to return. She's one lucky lady, whoever she may be.
2006-11-27 21:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by AileneWright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't want to do anything and you wonder why your life is meaningless?.
U said it u choose to live that way so then why ask why?
Give yourself a wake up call and start by doing some charity work or helping the needy i.e. homeless people or go to orphanage at least then you know now u can be useful if you try. God will only help those who help themselves.
2006-11-28 05:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where you go wrong. No one will make you complete, no one can bring you true happiness and satsfaction. You have to be satsfied with your own self, get a life of your own, understand perfectly what you want out of it, be focused and thats the only way you will be able to love and be happy with someone else.
Get a life, indulge in hobbies, even if you dont feel like you have to try, get friends and be involved in their lives and vice versa, dont feel sorry for urself.
If you continue feeling like this, even when you get her, it wont work out becoz these feelings wont go away and you might start feeling like you are not good enough for her and such stuff.
Change your point of view, get a life and if it perssits it wont hurt to go see a doc.
Goodluck.
2006-11-28 05:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Essie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds like you are either extremely introverted, or you are suffering from depression. Perhaps you should go see a doctor. And, also...you know, you need to be a complete person before you get into a relationship. You need to have a life, things you enjoy, it's good to have friends too. Just try . You may find some things you really enjoy. Honestly, i don't think i know a girl who would just go crazy for a guy who didn't like to do anything. Not trying to be hard on you, but i think you need to try to find out some things you like, you need to try to find out who you are, instead of finding someone to tell you who you are. They can't tell you that, and it's an unfair burden to put on someone, to make your life for you. And you have listed some key symptoms of depression, you should really consider seeing a doctor. I believe that there is someone out there for you. And she will make you very happy, but you need to be yourself, too, and you need to know how to be happy on your own.
2006-11-28 05:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I strongly agree that a partner can make life happier , but your life has meaning on its own merit! To me life is all about attitude, if you count your blessings physically/mentally compared to those with serious disability's, that alone should inspire us to have a better attitude or out look on life. Besides when your soul mate does appear you want her to see that you have a life!!
2006-11-28 05:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! who evr that gal z im sure she z in for a treat of her life!!!!! Hey if thz makes u happy..other thatn u knw trying to be something which ur nt interested in..im sure true love wud be d answer..bt dnt hurry things bcoz u wnt ur life to be fun..and less lethagic..just calm down get friendly with a gal....and keep it cool live life the way it comes....dnt always try to make ur destiny..let destiny find its way.hehehe ya i knw its kinda hard bt hey it always work....soo thik abt it.....and DNT wry,....u sound really cool and really really romantic...ur a lover boy!!!!!!!
Let true love find its way!!!!! Thats ma advice.....
Hope this helps...
2006-11-28 05:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Chrmd_luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on...stay on ur toes...tell her like you are telling us...she will be urs...that's what for sure...but my friend look at the rest of the world also...coz apart from her u have lods of people because of whom u r u...so talk to them ..take some suggestions and come back man..all the best...
2006-11-28 05:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by sureshflourish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound depressed. You are being unrealistic about love, expecting way to much. You should really get professional help.
2006-11-28 05:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound depressed. Call the doctor.
2006-11-28 05:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ske? @_@
you havent hung wit teh oriely... there absolutly no chance of not smiling if your around me. lol
2006-11-28 05:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋