if a guy your seeing casually asks if you have "been" with other guys since you split from your ex, what does he mean?is he seeing if your over your ex?
i really like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me out?i have only kissed him.
2006-11-27 21:06:26 · 9 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah he probably likes you and is trying to find out whether you are ready for a new relationship- with him. As for a reason why he hasnt asked you out i think he's probably worried that he might be a re-bound if u have just split from an ex. Maybe hes waiting for the right time, incase u turn him down etc.
good luck :-)
2006-11-27 21:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question seems harmless and he may want assurance that you are over your ex but I get the feeling here that he may also want to "feel you for loving only" possibilities. He may want to have sex with you and not really date you so take your time with him. (Let the next kiss be after the end of @ date)
2006-11-28 05:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Enchanted Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could possibly be cause he wants to see if you are over your ex. Or it could be to see if you sleep around. Or it could be because he wants to know if you have been, if he should worry about catching something from you. It's hard to tell!!
2006-11-28 05:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn (AzCrazyGirl) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is just after sex without commitment and can smell your vulnerability. Keep him at arms length and just keep him as a friend.
2006-11-28 05:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's asking if you are putting it about. Probably wants to know if you will with him.
He sounds sad.
2006-11-28 08:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's checking to see if you are a serious type or not. If you've been with others you're not very loyal........
if you haven't you are!
2006-12-02 01:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him that you have not been with other guys because you are saving it all for him.
2006-11-28 05:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope u love him...
i don know what he really means..
better u ask him directly.
2006-11-28 05:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"been" = anything beyond holding hands. Explain all.
if its more than 2... hold somthing back. lol
2006-11-28 05:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋