I'm a new mother. I have never cheated in my life. I a good honest woman. I've actually been dumped for being too perfect. I've had men leave me for gold diggers and flat out controlling women. I've been told that I'd make a good wife and they all tell me I'm a good person to be with by an ex but I haven't had a relationship that has even lasted a year.
Where is all the men that don't want to turn a whoe into a house wife?
2006-11-27 20:15:03 · 15 answers · asked by babydoll_y2g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You meet Mr. Right when you're not looking for Mr. Right.
So many people have relationships for the wrong reasons and wonder why they fail.
Why do you feel the need to have a good man? To be loved? Good company? These are really wrong reasons to start a relationship for. Love and good company you can get from family, friends and pets.
Relationships built around need and desire do not last long. You'll often find the best relationships are built from scenarios where the two people have been good friends and build a chemistry from there. If you start a relationship built only on attraction, desperation/need or because you enjoy the same hobbies, then you'll find you'll come to the end of the 'honeymoon' period in no time at all. When the attraction starts to fizzle a bit and you start having arguments or experience jealousy etc- all you'll be left with is two people who don't really know eachother and not much love.
2006-11-27 20:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first step and the hardest one to take on your way to healing a psychological problem is to admit that you have a problem. I would feel good that she is aware of her problem and wants to do something about it. I would talk to her and try to find out why she feels that way and let her know that I believe in her and will support her in anyway I can, so together we can work though her problem. I think that a woman with low confidence is turned off because she is not getting the emotional support she needs during these down times in her life. Listen, men don't pick up on these kinds of things to quickly and unless there is a flashing neon sign 6 inches from their face they may have no clue to how their partner is feeling. This is a problem in a relationship, when you have two people who love each other and they won't reach out and tell each other how they are feeling and what it is doing to them. No I would never cheat on her because she is going through a rough time in her life, you just don't turn your back on someone you love in that way.
2016-05-22 21:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're out there keep looking and don't give up hope. I really can't tell how old you are from the t iny little photo. But I can tell you most younger guys are just looking for a "party girl" who will give him some. Maybe try to find some one a little older than you are.
2006-11-27 22:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask JacSmith_xxx where the good men are? he's as good as they come. Just joking! I'd actually run away if he came at me. What a preverted name?
2006-11-27 20:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i despise people who give bad advice..
Anyhow.
They ARE out there, but the way you act can also determine it, you can be TOO good.
Guys hate that.
We don't want a perfect girl...
not the good men at least.
Flaws are...the things that define us.
without them. were more boring than a bag of hammers.
get out there, get bad, have some fun.
live it up, and find somone!
2006-11-27 20:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u re probably boring. gold diggers know that they need to attract man and keep him, so they know how to do that. u don't. so maybe instead of judging others who can have any man they want and u can't, so u re actually a loser, maybe u would ask them an advice? and anyway, there re plenty of loser men out there, whom gold diggers wouldn't want, so u can have them sweety
2006-11-27 20:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
where have all the flowers gone? when i was young, that was a popular song. i think there are a few good ones left. just be patient. your day will come.
2006-11-27 20:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are that good person then that means you are not good as a partner , like in bed you know.
see some movies of that kind and try to perfect it and they will stay .
We all stay for sex and good food , lol .
2006-11-27 20:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
figure out what your doing wrong and fix it because its not a coincedence. . . resolve ur issues dont make them worse . . . and there are alot out there just look and be for sure and maybe its time to b a housewife and not a ho because your a mother now
2006-11-27 20:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by lil_oreo_11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In your dreams.
Sounds like you could use some lessons on being feminine and sexy. Being "good" is not the same as being attractive.
2006-11-27 20:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋