I told him I needed to choose...now he won't answer my calls or anything but he will just read my IM messages like he wants to know my decision without saying anything..is it because of pride or age?
2006-11-27 19:19:40 · 5 answers · asked by andingjuniorhighstudent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him I love him but we are impossible
2006-11-27 19:40:15 · update #1
It's neither pride nor age. It's the simple fact that no one really wants to date someone who doesn't want them. The fact that you needed to choose is very telling. If you REALLY liked him, you would have made your choice in almost no time (before you opened your mouth, probably). But you went and told him that you needed to choose, and took plenty of time. That's not going to inspire any good feelings in the fellow. Even if you do choose him, he will not feel like you see him as unique and special anymore.
Also, you have to understand . . . sometimes girls say stuff like that when they really mean "no" and don't have the nerve to just come out and say it. It's happened to me, and I'm sure it's also happened to many other guys. Now I can see right through all the BS, but at the time I took things at face value.
Good night!
2006-11-27 19:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AGE! He is 15....15 y.o. boys are fueled by hormones. If you are busy choosing he is going to go out and try and chase some other girl...but he is still on standby just in case you open up since i am guessing he has put effort into 'getting you'.
2006-11-28 03:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by MaryJaneD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
them both..this age causes pride..
2006-11-28 03:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by spicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deerrr cause he is 15
2006-11-28 03:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by jac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either or both, i think hes the one to just forget, hes too childish
2006-11-28 03:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋