hard to find love in this world im a nice guy i have try dateing site and go to church i dont go to bar im just being my self i enjoy a lot of thing in life and i love the out door.i just dont under stand this world any more.
2006-11-27 19:13:33 · 10 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nice guys finish last, bud.
2006-11-27 19:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh boy I know what your going through right now. Its so hard, I've done all the dating sites too and I'm at the point where I'm giving up on them because I realized people on them have real mental issues or just want a one n ight stand type of deal. Its horrible for people like us who actually go there looking for love. But if I were you I'd try finding singles events in your area. The website themeetup.com is pretty good about singles groups in large cities and they have speed dating and events at restaurants where you can meet people. I havn't gone to my cities event yet but I plan on it cuz the internet dating thing just doesn't work. Hope I was of some help.
2006-11-28 03:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Laura S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good things come to those who wait. Don't get frustrated and just settle. When the right person comes along, you will be ready. Until then, take your time and enjoy the window shopping. This way you can say you experienced all types of people and found certain qualities you would want in your soul mate.
2006-11-28 03:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your goin thorugh, but I've figured it out...all of us has a little model of the way the world works in our heads...our beleifs...We use thes to act and get what we want our of life. If your model doesn't work the same as the real world then, sorry but your going to end up frustrated. You have to adapt your belifes to relfect what REALLY GOING ON, I know you see it all around you, yep you r gonna have to play "the game" I've just recognized this but I young so Ill be alright.
See the world as it is not according to your fantasies
2006-11-28 03:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's "hard" to find love, then the problem, I think, is one (or two) of two things:
1. You're terrible at it.
2. You have a very negative perspective on the matter. I'd suggest enjoying the search, rather than DEMANDING results.
Either way, you can work on it. Work hard.
2006-11-28 03:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your trying too hard, you will find that love will find you! Just cool it for a while, and hang out with your Friend's. It will come! Have a good day!
2006-11-28 03:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for your turn. You must wait till the lightning strikes the dark clouds. Then only you get rain.
2006-11-28 03:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Gnanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you pray about this? And to whom?
Hey, get some counselling from a certified professional.
Or at the very least, talk to your mother about this. And your father.
2006-11-28 03:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait til you're a little older and women are more mature. It gets better then.
2006-11-28 03:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try volunteering where many women do.
http://www.volunteermatch.org
Talk to them. If you are interested in one, ask her out, let her know!
Good luck!
2006-11-28 03:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋