I have been seeing this man for about a month now.When we first spent our night togetherI was surprised he did not want sex,he wanted to wait.
Our last night together he satisfied me other ways than sex,does this mean he really does love me?
2006-11-27 19:00:42 · 14 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all men think that way and not a lot of guys can wait when it comes to satisfying themselves through err sexual means. I believe this guy is really into you and more than that he has shown you how much he cares for you buy showing you how much he respects you as a person by deciding to wait. To him you probaby are more than just sexual satisfaction but someone he care really bond with... You are important to him... Be happy that you found a man who can respect you as a person and who can wait for awhile rather than just jump in and satisfying himself...a man who really cares for you...
2006-11-27 19:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He loves you but he was probably raised in a family where sex out of wedlock was not accepted, his values that he grew up with are different. Also he might be scared if it is his first time. Some men do not like to have sex with only a month into the relationship, he might just want to get to know you better before you two go too far.
2006-11-28 03:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by robby miszti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that 'other ways than sex' would indicate cunnilingus? Take it from me - I've been studying the subject for a while. Due to homophobia, men avoid expressing social intimacy towards other males. Consequently, they never really learn how to emotionally love someone until they've had some GOOD female relationships.
Basically, some men don't know how to express love to their partner besides with sex. Sex definitely plays a role, but after you get to know this man a lot better, he will open up.
I think he probably does love you though.
2006-11-28 03:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by jsprplc2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you can call it love already you've only been seeing him for a month. But it dose mean he likes you alot if he doing what your saying he doing guy don't just automatically do that kind of stuff without feeling some kind of closeness with you. I think he respects you and didn't want to rush things to fast and that's great trust me he sounds like a keeper! : )
2006-11-28 03:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by susan22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sex and love have nothing to do with each other for men. Sorry, but they just don't have any relation. He has some other hang up, maybe a religious background that teaches sex is dirty.
2006-11-28 03:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily love. But he is definatly looking for more than just the physical contact with you. Take your time, and just have fun. The love part will come in due time.
2006-11-28 03:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dan H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he still pleasured you.
If he didn't love you, he would've just had sex and left you..
I guess he wants to wait until he gets married or until he is responsible.. Good man.
Or maybe he is too shy and don't think he'll be able to pleasure you by vaginal sex..
2006-11-28 03:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by Shadowfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you but it sounds like he has some hang ups about his man hood
2006-11-28 03:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Normefoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he seems to be a nice guy but wait for some more time.
He is the guy for you if he feels your desire and gives you sex when you are yourself ready for it.
2006-11-28 03:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either has great respect for you or is impotent and embarrassed about it.
2006-11-28 03:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋