This is an inhouse provider in her home so there is not multiple teachers but my daughter does go full time. I read in a magazine that it is customary to give 1-2 weeks pay as a gift. I can't afford to do that on a single income? help?
2006-11-27 18:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by kitten 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Ma'am, I'm sure that if you could afford to do it you would, but as you can't you shouldn't feel bad about this at all. You should FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF for wanting to do something nice for someone who technically, for all points and purposes is your employee. Sorry, but while I've heard of bonuses in these situations and I've had lots of friends with jobs just like this I've never heard of them being handed out. They're lucky if they get a tree ornament or a gift certificate. You know what?
EVERYBODY has to eat, therefore buy food along with household items, clothes...etc. So why not a gift certificate to Wal-Mart, K-Mart or Target in the amount you can afford. I'm sure she'll not only like it but appreciate it.
Gosh, that's just a really nice thing that you want to do! It warms my heart and I'm glad I got to answer this question. Ma'am you are all about what the Christmas Spirit truly is.
Peace Be With You
2006-11-27 19:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 16⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry. I think it's nice that you are giving a gift at all! The nicest thing about a gift is the good intentions behind it (and nice wrapping doesnt hurt either).
What about paying for her to have a manicure? That can cost around $25.
Or if your budget is tight, how about some nice pamper products - a good hand cream for example? As a childcare provider, she probally doesnt get much chance to spoil herself!
Could you maybe organise with all the other mothers to buy a beauty product each, and then give it to her as a hamper?
But really its the thought that counts. As I said, its nice that you are getting her something at all!
2006-11-27 18:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 1⤋
I guess I would get her a gift certificate for whatever you feel you can afford. She probably knows your situation, so would appreciate whatever you give. Gift cards to Target or Wal-Mart---I'm sure there are always things she needs from those type of stores.
It's nice of you to do this!
2006-11-27 20:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 13⤊ 1⤋
ah i have a wonderful answer for you!! i am also a single mother and when i had a childcare provider like yours who kept my children in her home i knew i couldn't afford much. (for her or anyone else for that matter) so i learned how to make home made soaps and bath salts by going online. i went to a craft store and bought all of the things needed for (if i remember correctly about $20) the supplies made enough to give out gift baskets of home made soaps and bath salts. or you could even make candles. she absolutely loved it!! she said it gave herself a way to be pampered with special treats (she had three kids of her own living in the home) you can also bake cookies and add them to the basket. it's a nice inexpensive way to say thanks. and it's very easy to make these items also!
2006-11-28 01:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 13⤊ 1⤋
you don't have to give such an expensive gift. I think the rule you read about the amount applies to rich women with nannies instead of someone in your case who needs someone to watch the kid(s) while you work.
give something you mean. put some thought into it and try to match it to the child care provider as a person. if she likes purple, get her something purple, it doesn't have to be expensive.
2006-11-27 18:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by tami 4 · 14⤊ 1⤋
Buy him/her a gift card to their favorite resturant and two movie tickets. Theres nothing like a nice meal and a night out for entertainment and not having to pay for anything. It is thoughtful and creative.
2006-11-27 19:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha L 1 · 13⤊ 1⤋
Invite her to dinner as an honored guest, in appreciation for her faithful service. (in your home is ok, too)
A simple certificate (not gift certificate) "In recognition" is great for some people.
Offer to help her with her errands and chores one or two days.
Have the child make a card with crayons, too. Unless they're like 14 or something...:)
2006-11-27 21:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 2⤋
Buy her a nice cake ($20-30)
2006-11-27 19:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 2⤋
Candles! They put off a good smell, look pretty, and are affordable.
2006-11-28 00:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by ivy_trick_mess 4 · 13⤊ 1⤋