so i ahve a school dance this friday
and i ahve the cutest outfit that i know will get me attention
but i would like to meet alot of guys, either future bfs or jsut uyfriends
how do i do this?
and dont jsut say go up to them and talk or whatver
and also how do i get thier attention and get them to come talk to me?
btw im a freshamn in highschool
2006-11-27 18:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by bionca 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, chill. Guys of all ages have a highly tuned sense of smell when it comes to desperation. The good ones will just be turned off by it and the creeps will take advantage of it and just use you.
The best way to actually meet guys is to join clubs/activities and develop interests in things that also interest the kind of guys you want to attract. It helps if you know what type of guy you want to attract, and why those traits are important to you.
Guys generally want to know girls that are fun, funny, reasonably intelligent and that have a healthy love for themselves, their bodies and their sexuality. Check out www.scarleteen.com for good information on that.
Generally, a basic friendly confidence goes a long way to put guys at ease about being around you-and that is your goal. Believe me, the guys are just as anxious and insecure about how to get to know girls as girls are about getting to know boys. Romantic relationships should start with friendship, so make that your focus. Guys are simple, but not stupid, if you understand me. If you put up a big act, the guys worth knowing will see through it. Be real. Be yourself.
As a conversation starter, all people like to talk about themselves, so ask them questions about themselves when you have an opportunity to start a conversation. Ask for an opinion on something. Make a humorous observation to a guy about something else you are both observing, like the way the teachers patrol the corners at the dance looking for "sinners" or about the band or music that is playing at the moment.
But most of all, chill. :) Good luck!
2006-11-27 18:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kaelen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act super confident, laugh alot, pretend like you havent noticed a single guy in the room and dance your little but off with your girlfriends, the guys will just come to you ;) serious
2006-11-28 02:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by dolce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a sexy revealing outfit and be friendly and have a great smile and dont worry you will meet all the guys you want to--just be yourself and the rest will come
2006-11-28 02:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you say you got the cutest outfit, but I still want to suggest, if you wear a miniskirt and thongs, they will buzz around you like bees around the honeypot.
2006-11-28 02:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make your ''cute'' whatever outfit smaller and shorter, you know like the girls in strip clubs wear, yeah those...hmmm....
2006-11-28 02:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Marko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put more than two pieces of cloth on you .
2006-11-28 02:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the guy to dance with you.
2006-11-28 02:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hand out party favors.
2006-11-28 02:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by haet_lyf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay who you are
2006-11-28 02:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by want2know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋