I have been talking to this girl for about 1 month and we haven't dated yet because she tells me she doesn't want a bf right now which is cool but she kept txtin me all the time and acted like nothing happened... I was going to break it off the next time I seen her in person (Thanksgiving Break) but I went out with some old friends over the break and met this girl and things happened which shouldn't have happened... I'm not a man whore. I told myself I would never cheat on anyone because I know what that does to the girls who gets cheated on and it hurts. I don't like the fact that I messed around with a girl who was an obvious whore whom I don't even talk to anymore... I know I'm going to break it off tomorrow and I know I will tell her what I did because it was just wrong even though we were not dating... How do I tell her we're just not talking anymore without hurting her feelings?
2006-11-27 18:00:57 · 12 answers · asked by obsidian_121 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What? Too much drama! And what's with all this text-messaging? Just go find somebody else who is actually serious about dating you.
2006-11-29 10:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i think that u should find out what the 1 month old female wants to do and where this relationship is heading. if u 2 r just friends then u haven't cheated.but u still need to know what's up just in case u r confronted with this situation again. i would not tell her what u did because then it will be hard for her to trust u and u will probably never continue the relationship. just start fresh within yourself and go forward
2006-11-28 02:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by FLOWERGRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you weren't dating the first girl and slept with another girl then you haven't technically cheated. Just tell the first one that you're not interested anymore and keep your mouth shut. You don't have to give her all the details. Show some compassion and just tell her the timing is right and you want to see what's out there..
2006-11-28 02:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the both of you never agreed that you were in a relationship with one another then you didn't cheat. Also, there's nothing to "break off" because there wasn't a relationship to begin with. Perhaps there was a 'mutual understanding' that you liked each other but that doesn't make anything official unless, like I said, you both acknowledged it and agreed to be involved with one another, which she specifically said she didn't want.
2006-11-28 02:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by SweetestDownfall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start by not using the word whore.
ok, that wasn't a helpful answer. but seriously, i'm a bit put off by your labeling the girl you slept with an "obvious whore." having said that, if you're going to break it off with the girl you've been texting anyway, why cause her anymore pain by telling her you slept w/someone else.
2006-11-28 02:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by Swtrvng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you cheated, but the other girl might get mad about it. It serves you right sleeping around. Just happens that way with this type of lifestyle.
All you can do is be honest with both of them and let THEM decide who stays and who goes. You might end up the loser in both situations. All you can do is live and learn and don't do it again.
2006-11-28 02:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you can't not hurt her feeling, i think its best if u tell her. i dont know what she'll do, just let her know that u know it was a mistake, let her know earnestly what u think about it, if u want to have something with her this is where you have to roll the dice and hope she does still want to be with you when she is ready to have a BF
2006-11-28 02:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were not dating this was not cheating. if u still have to talk to her just tell her in a calm voice and say sorry.
2006-11-28 02:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don`t u just keep the incident ur secret??that`ll absolutely hurt her feelings and she won`t trust u anymore maybe.maybe.
2006-11-28 02:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by lara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt cheat if you wasnt dating anyone. so just let it go. i know you told her you wasnt seeing anyone but sht happens so dont worry about it.
2006-11-28 02:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋