I went out with this girl and we had sec all the time. After we broke up i found out she cheated on me the whole time we went out. Besides for that awesome bit she had a new BF a week after we broke up ( we went out for a year..). The crazy thing is she started banging all my friends after we broke up ( I guess she was cheating on this dude to). My question is why is this girl like that? You think she was abused when she was a kid or something? I understand some girls are hoes but this girl seems even beyond that. What do you think.
2006-11-27 17:51:26 · 14 answers · asked by TC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her parents had a messy divroce when she was like 12-13 i think and she moves alot. She is about 16-17 now.
2006-11-27 18:07:17 · update #1
I didnt know she was cheating because im a idiot
2006-11-27 18:11:34 · update #2
There could be so many reasons. It sounds like she wants attention from anyone who will give it to her because maybe she didn't get it when she was growing up. How could you not know that she was cheating?
2006-11-27 18:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear you had that experience. That really sucks, cheating is just so wrong, and over such a long period of time... you must feel very betrayed.
I get the feeling that you are trying to figure out what are most likely to cheat by asking this question. We can all hypothesize what makes the sketches of people one can provide through description here on yahoo answers are the way they are all night. The individual situation is impossible for anyone who doesn't know her to guess at. In the end, the individual situation really doesn't matter - she did what she did, and now you have to decide how to handle the emotional fallout, and how you will interact with her (if at all) from here on out. You can't try to "predict" cheating... I've tried that, and believe me, it does not work. There is not a "cheating" type, really. People can always surprise you, both with their ability to cheat and their ability to remain loyal. Sometimes the sh*t just hits the fan; you can't control other people's actions, and you really can't always predict them. Instead, focus on what you can control: your own actions and reactions. What kind of person do you want to be, seperate from any concerns that she may have brought into your life? Determine your own reaction to this, don't let her determine who you are by allowing yourself to simply react to her poor behavior, or by allowing her to close you off to a whole genre of people because of her actions - labeling girls who have had troubled pasts as "likely cheaters". Good luck, and hope you feel better! You're not the first person this has happened to by far.
2006-11-28 02:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is she is young, dumb and full of c*m! It doesn't matter what her issue is, she is old enough to know better. She could be spreading all kinds of std's to you and your friends. Just because something bad happens to you, is no excuse to act like a whore & live a crappy life. You should want to do better for yourself. The old saying when life gives you lemons, make lemonade is in order. For you too. You need to find a normal chick and get exposed to what a true relationship is really about. Don't give up, they aren't all like her.
2006-11-28 01:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There must've been some problems at her family when she was a little child. I wouldn't call her a ..... because I think her behaviors stronly indicate she has serious psychological problems which make her behave the way she does. I think she has problems trusting guys as well as having a healthy relationship with them. She'd better go see a specialist for this. She's only doing harm to herself.
2006-11-28 01:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by danielle s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I THINK that she has serious issues. If she hasn't caught something yet she is bound to soon! U didn't mention her age.... BUT regardless...she's probably got really low selfesteem and needs a guy to f () ck her for her to feel any better.... LEAVE HER ALONE!
2006-11-28 01:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by BuRn Di WiSdOm WeEd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EVEN IF SHE WAS ABUSED IT IS NO EXCUSE TO CHEAT, ONCE YOU REACH YOUR TEENS YOU NO WHAT IS RIGHT AND WHAT IS WRONG.. AS TO WHY SHE DOES IT WHO NO'S? SOME PEOPLE ARE CHILDISH AND SELFISH AND DO NOT CARE ABOUT PEOPLES FEELINGS... ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT YOU ARE LUCKY TO BE FREE FROM HER AND FIND A NICE HONEST GIRLFRIEND!!
2006-11-28 01:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by xsplodeit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women are freakin insane. They are not logical like guys are and therefire they do things they thnk will make them happy in the moment and don't really care as much as they pretend to.
2006-11-28 01:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by jsnpasty 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
since you and that girl already broke, it's her freedom to start new relationship and it's nothing to do with you.
2006-11-28 02:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by peter71 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
was it a bitter break up? she may have been trying to get back at you. also, she could be trying to fill a "void" whatever the situation may be. You might suggest theorpy
2006-11-28 01:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it all comes from her childhood, she wasnt loved enough, her parents didnt give her much attention....that is her way to make up for lack of attention and love....i feel sorry for her!
2006-11-28 01:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mila 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋