My boyfriend is extremely jealous as I am 15 years younger than him and am considered to be Angelina Jolie beautiful (what others have said). I get hit on alot at work ( we work together) and the men are very attractive, however no one knew we were dating. I am not interested in dating anyone else, however he has been seperated from his sons mother for 7 months and has yet to settle his affairs(ie seperate finances, sell the house, seperation agreement). He got jealous the other day and told everyone we were dating, I didn't want anyone to know until he settled his affairs.
Why is he so jealous, I have never cheated on anyone am very self confidant and independant. he withholds affection when he's angry at me(jealous) for something his mind has created.
2006-11-27 17:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys want to be the center of attention for their girlfriends. Sounds like he needs more than you can give. Self confidence and independence can be intimidating for a guy too, so they may try to reinforce themselves by being controlling. Jealousy is a personal problem, there is a lack of confidence and trust. I would be careful of this guy, hopefully he's not the violent type.
2006-11-27 17:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mike H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous because he's a lot older, because you're beautiful, and because you're working with a bunch of attractive guys who are younger than he. All these make him feel very insecure. My advice is that try to keep distance from him. If he acts like this now, you can never know what will come next after you two get married or settle down. He doesn't sound a very good choice. Good luck.
2006-11-27 17:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your boyfriend. He should understand your feelings toward his girl mate - but on the other hand dont act or sound too jealous when you're confronting him. Also if he tells you what you want to hear (hes got no feelings for her whatsoever) then it comes down to TRUSTING your boyfriend. Good luck ;)
2016-03-28 22:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experiences there could be a couple of reasons why he is so jealous...the age factor, his insecurities, he may be up to no good and assume that you are too...but whatever the reason I have came to realize that you cannot change a man or any ways about him that you do not like. Do what you think is in your best interest
2006-11-27 17:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by desidatgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Talk to him.
2. Ditch him if #1 doesn't work.
3. Don't date overly jealous men.
IMNSHO
2006-11-27 17:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by drofa2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boy or boy, this spells trouble.
If he is like this now......can you im.
agine the future
Hon. this man can't honor you by respecting the confidence in your dating.
He maybe needs to get over the divorce before he dates again.
He isn't managing his life well.
2006-11-27 17:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for this kind of question, you need to know what's going on between your BF and his wife.
Is it because of jealousy? if yes, in future you're the same as his wife.
2006-11-27 17:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELLLOOO! U ARE YOUNGER...HE IS OLDER!
HE STILL ISN'T "SINGLE" AND SEEING U...
HE THINKS U'LL DO THE SAME AND
LEAVE HIM FOR A YOUNGER MAN.....
GET RID OF HIM-
HE CAN'T POSSIBLY BE ANY GOOD...
2006-11-27 17:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget the beauty, use your brains and dump this loser.
2006-11-27 17:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's jealous cos u matter a lot to him.
2006-11-27 17:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋