ok someone please explain to me how you can not be sexually attracted to someone but allow, beg even, to be kissed, fondled, stroked and fingered by that person, told they can't live without you, that you have a special connection...sounds cheesy but this is what is going on with me as her self proclaimed "kinda-sorta" boyfriend...........
2006-11-27 17:42:07 · 12 answers · asked by irishliam36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she is sexually attracted to you but for some reason this is unacceptable to her. Are you very different from the types of guys she has been with before you? Or perhaps a sexual relationship between the two of you is inappropriate or even off limits for some reason (such as being relatives or having a large age difference)? This might explain her contradictory behavior. But please consider that asking her about this directly probably won't get you anywhere since she has worked hard to convince herself that she has no attraction for you and it's somehow making her feel safe and/or in control of the situation... she is unlikely to let go of this self deception very easily. But what you really need to realize here is that this girl is confused and conflicted and it is not your fault.
2006-11-27 18:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Scarlet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen, my brother is going thru that same thing now...she let him play with her most prized possesion,down there just to be fingered now all of a sudden things went haywired,.that is crazy!!! trust me take your finger and put it where it will be worth doing more than that,...what she plan on doing using ur finger only for life you have better things to do,...and how cant she be attracted to you,..but yet let you do all of that,...there is some kind of attraction she is just fronting on you...she acts like her stuff is made out of gold!! where you aint sexy enough to get past that,...stop pleasing her!!! and take your sexy self somewhere else...because that finger will get you to another stage with someone who wants more than just your finger...
2006-11-27 17:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not a "kinda-sorta" boyfriend your her boy toy. You take care of her wants and needs but she won't touch you **** that. Bro you do what you want but I know you've got needs too; if I was you and you was me I'd find a woman to take of my needs and drop that biotch.
2006-11-27 17:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was playing some kind of a game with you. If she's not sexually attracted to you, she would NEVER let you touch her!!! I'm a woman, and I would NOT let an unattractive guy to touch me at all. Of course, she's attracted to you and wants to be intimate with you. Don't doubt about yourself!!!
2006-11-27 17:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by danielle s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shes using you without letting you get any its not too hard to figure out.
2006-11-27 17:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by jsnpasty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey...
some ugly guys know what their doing.
they could be doing the act,
but the girl's got an imagination...
2006-11-27 17:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Joey Joe, yo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a great lover! Congrats!
2006-11-27 17:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ah. a keeper girl. I lost one of those. She was really into it too! then... there was a car accident...
2006-11-27 17:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody said this. Maybe she's a virgin! Maybe this is all she's done yet!
2006-11-27 18:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls can be just as slutty as boys-----you'll do until something better comes along........get some self-esteem and dump her!--advice from a girl......
2006-11-27 17:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by blue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋